如何提高亲子阅读的质量？转给家长，孩子长久受益
<div style="max-width:677px !important;"><section style="letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.6; padding: 0px 10px; box-sizing: border-box; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-align: justify;" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><section style="line-height: 2; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 0px 10px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" style="" face="宋体">亲爱的家长们，你是否有过以下几种想法或者做法：</font></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(62, 62, 62, 0.76); box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">● 教孩子读书，就是为了让他们多认字；</font></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(62, 62, 62, 0.76); box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">● 要孩子阅读家长自己觉得对孩子“有用”的书籍；</font></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(62, 62, 62, 0.76); box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">● 和孩子阅读时，总是向孩子提大量的问题；</font></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(62, 62, 62, 0.76); box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">● 总是会帮孩子总结内容，告诉孩子故事讲了什么道理；</font></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(62, 62, 62, 0.76); box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">● 和孩子亲子阅读后，会让孩子给自己复述故事，甚至背诵部分内容；</font></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(62, 62, 62, 0.76); box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">……</font></span></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p><p style="white-space: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">如果你也曾这样想或这样做，可能已经走进了亲子阅读的<span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;color: rgb(253, 134, 79);box-sizing: border-box;">误区</span>。</font></span></p></section><section style="text-align: center; margin: 20px 0% 0px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 90%;height: auto;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section><section style="line-height: 2; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 0px 10px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;box-sizing: border-box;">正值两会刚结束不久，今年最热门的话题就是“教育”，</span><span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;box-sizing: border-box;">2021年也是自2014年以来，</span><span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;box-sizing: border-box;">政府工作报告连续<span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;color: rgb(253, 134, 79);box-sizing: border-box;">倡导<span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);box-sizing: border-box;">“</span>全民阅读<span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);box-sizing: border-box;">”的第八年</span></span>。如今不少父母对孩子的早期教育愈加重视，越来越多的家庭开始了亲子阅读。</span></font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">但是很多家长在和孩子进行亲子阅读时，常常会走进这三个误区：</font></span></p></section><section style="line-height: 2; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 0px 10px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br></font></p></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;margin: 10px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;align-self: center;flex: 0 0 0%;height: auto;line-height: 1;padding: 0px;margin: 0px -10px 0px 0px;z-index: 1;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 15px;height: 15px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><section><font size="3" face="宋体"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></font></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;border-style: solid;border-width: 3px;border-color: rgb(236, 211, 201);padding: 3px 5px;flex: 100 100 0%;align-self: center;height: auto;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin: 0px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="background-color: rgb(236, 211, 201);height: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section><section style="margin: 3px 0% 0px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="color: rgb(106, 106, 106); line-height: 2; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 0px 10px; box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-align: center;white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">一、常 见 选 书 误 区</font></strong></p></section></section><section style="margin: 0px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="background-color: rgb(236, 211, 201);height: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;align-self: center;flex: 0 0 0%;height: auto;line-height: 1;z-index: 1;margin: 0px 0px 0px -10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 15px;height: 15px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><section><font size="3" face="宋体"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></font></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p></section><section style="line-height: 2.2; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 0px 10px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(62, 62, 62, 0.76); box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">● 我的孩子就是不喜欢看书怎么办？</font></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(62, 62, 62, 0.76); box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">● 给自家孩子买的都是经典绘本、好书，可孩子就是不爱看，为什么别的孩子都喜欢他就不喜欢？</font></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(62, 62, 62, 0.76); box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">● 我们家孩子一本书读了好几个月，现在看的书我读的都想吐了，我给他买的其他书，他就是不想换怎么办？</font></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(62, 62, 62, 0.76); box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">……</font></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p></section><section style="text-align: left; margin: 10px 0% 0px; justify-content: flex-start; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;min-width: 10%;max-width: 100%;vertical-align: top;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 100%;vertical-align: top;background-color: rgb(243, 226, 211);border-width: 1px;border-radius: 100px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(195, 141, 94);overflow: hidden;letter-spacing: 0px;padding: 10px 20px;line-height: 1;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="transform: translate3d(1px, 0px, 0px);-webkit-transform: translate3d(1px, 0px, 0px);-moz-transform: translate3d(1px, 0px, 0px);-o-transform: translate3d(1px, 0px, 0px);margin: 0px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="text-align: justify;color: rgb(105, 62, 51);letter-spacing: 2px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">问题建议<br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></strong></p></section></section></section><section style="transform: translate3d(20px, 0px, 0px);-webkit-transform: translate3d(20px, 0px, 0px);-moz-transform: translate3d(20px, 0px, 0px);-o-transform: translate3d(20px, 0px, 0px);margin: -1px 0% 0px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 20px;height: 20px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;line-height: 0;letter-spacing: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;margin: 0px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 90%;box-sizing: border-box;"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" x="0px" y="0px" viewBox="0 0 38.4 26.9" style="vertical-align: middle;max-width: 100%;width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;" width="100%"><path d="M6.5,0c0.1,0,5.5,0.6,4.9,5.9c-0.9,7.8-4,14.1-8.5,19.3c11.8-2.8,19.6-9.6,24.2-19.1c0-0.1,0.1-0.1,0.1-0.2C29.9,0.7,37.2,0,38.4,0" fill="rgb(243,226,211)" style="box-sizing: border-box;"></path><path d="M0,26.9l2.1-2.3c4.7-5.3,7.4-11.1,8.3-18c0.1-1.2-0.1-2.2-0.7-2.9C8.5,2.2,6.4,2,6.4,2V0c0,0,2.9,0.2,4.7,2.2c1.1,1.2,1.5,2.8,1.3,4.6c-0.7,6.2-3,11.7-6.7,16.6c9.3-2.8,16.2-8.5,20.5-16.9c0-0.1,0.1-0.2,0.1-0.3l0,0c3.2-6,12-6.2,12.1-6.2v2c-0.1,0-7.6,0.3-10.3,5.1c0,0.1-0.1,0.2-0.1,0.3l0,0c-5,9.9-13.3,16.2-24.9,18.8L0,26.9z" fill="rgb(195,141,94)" style="box-sizing: border-box;"></path></svg></section></section></section></section></font></section></section><section style="line-height: 2; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 0px 10px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);box-sizing: border-box;">1. </span></strong>其实父母在选择儿童读物时，不妨问一问孩子的意见，根据他们的<span style="color: rgb(253, 134, 79);box-sizing: border-box;">阅读兴趣和阅读水平</span>挑选书籍；<span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;box-sizing: border-box;">亲近母语创始人徐冬梅老师就有谈到过男孩和女孩的阅读差异，父母在为孩子选书时，还要考虑到孩子的</span><span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;color: rgb(253, 134, 79);box-sizing: border-box;">性别和年龄</span><span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;box-sizing: border-box;">来选择；</span></font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);box-sizing: border-box;">2. </span></strong><span style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);box-sizing: border-box;">为孩子选书不但要<span style="color: rgb(253, 134, 79);box-sizing: border-box;">注重“量”也要注重“质”</span>；家庭阅读的书籍品类应尽可能丰富，同时也要兼具文学性、艺术性和经典性等等</span><span style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);box-sizing: border-box;">，比如</span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;">中国首位“金苹果奖”获奖绘本画家蔡皋老师和</span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;">日本“绘本之父”松居直先生的作品</span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;">，能够吸引儿童，贴近儿童，让儿童乐读、爱读；</span></font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">3. </strong>经常带孩子去家附近的图书馆或者书店，给孩子更多的选择；</font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);box-sizing: border-box;">4. </span></strong><span style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);box-sizing: border-box;">孩子只看一本书也不要着急，家庭<span style="color: rgb(253, 134, 79);box-sizing: border-box;">陈列书籍方式要有吸引力</span>，确保孩子随手可以拿到书，比如沙发、客厅拐角、床头等。有时候孩子和书籍之间，可能只需要一个契机。</span></font></p></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;margin: 10px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;align-self: center;flex: 0 0 0%;height: auto;line-height: 1;padding: 0px;margin: 0px -10px 0px 0px;z-index: 1;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 15px;height: 15px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><section><font size="3" face="宋体"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></font></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;border-style: solid;border-width: 3px;border-color: rgb(236, 211, 201);padding: 3px 5px;flex: 100 100 0%;align-self: center;height: auto;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin: 0px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="background-color: rgb(236, 211, 201);height: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section><section style="margin: 3px 0% 0px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="color: rgb(106, 106, 106); line-height: 2; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 0px 10px; box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-align: center;white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">二、常 见 阅 读 误 区</font></strong></p></section></section><section style="margin: 0px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="background-color: rgb(236, 211, 201);height: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;align-self: center;flex: 0 0 0%;height: auto;line-height: 1;z-index: 1;margin: 0px 0px 0px -10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 15px;height: 15px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><section><font size="3" face="宋体"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></font></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p></section><section style="line-height: 2.2; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 0px 10px; color: rgb(160, 160, 160); box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">● 今天妈妈/爸爸没空和你一起看书，等有空再说吧。</font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">● 孩子上小学后，我就不再给孩子读书了，前期的亲子阅读过程中，他已经养成了很好的习惯，也认识了很多字，陪了这么多年终于熬出头了。</font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">● 我认为读书是一件安静的事情，亲子阅读也应该是这样，只有静下心来，才能真正进入读书的境界。</font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">● ……</font></p></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p></section><section style="text-align: left; margin: 10px 0% 0px; justify-content: flex-start; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;min-width: 10%;max-width: 100%;vertical-align: top;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 100%;vertical-align: top;background-color: rgb(243, 226, 211);border-width: 1px;border-radius: 100px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(195, 141, 94);overflow: hidden;letter-spacing: 0px;padding: 10px 20px;line-height: 1;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="transform: translate3d(1px, 0px, 0px);-webkit-transform: translate3d(1px, 0px, 0px);-moz-transform: translate3d(1px, 0px, 0px);-o-transform: translate3d(1px, 0px, 0px);margin: 0px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="text-align: justify;color: rgb(105, 62, 51);letter-spacing: 2px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">问题建议<br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></strong></p></section></section></section><section style="transform: translate3d(20px, 0px, 0px);-webkit-transform: translate3d(20px, 0px, 0px);-moz-transform: translate3d(20px, 0px, 0px);-o-transform: translate3d(20px, 0px, 0px);margin: -1px 0% 0px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 20px;height: 20px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;line-height: 0;letter-spacing: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;margin: 0px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 90%;box-sizing: border-box;"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" x="0px" y="0px" viewBox="0 0 38.4 26.9" style="vertical-align: middle;max-width: 100%;width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;" width="100%"><path d="M6.5,0c0.1,0,5.5,0.6,4.9,5.9c-0.9,7.8-4,14.1-8.5,19.3c11.8-2.8,19.6-9.6,24.2-19.1c0-0.1,0.1-0.1,0.1-0.2C29.9,0.7,37.2,0,38.4,0" fill="rgb(243,226,211)" style="box-sizing: border-box;"></path><path d="M0,26.9l2.1-2.3c4.7-5.3,7.4-11.1,8.3-18c0.1-1.2-0.1-2.2-0.7-2.9C8.5,2.2,6.4,2,6.4,2V0c0,0,2.9,0.2,4.7,2.2c1.1,1.2,1.5,2.8,1.3,4.6c-0.7,6.2-3,11.7-6.7,16.6c9.3-2.8,16.2-8.5,20.5-16.9c0-0.1,0.1-0.2,0.1-0.3l0,0c3.2-6,12-6.2,12.1-6.2v2c-0.1,0-7.6,0.3-10.3,5.1c0,0.1-0.1,0.2-0.1,0.3l0,0c-5,9.9-13.3,16.2-24.9,18.8L0,26.9z" fill="rgb(195,141,94)" style="box-sizing: border-box;"></path></svg></section></section></section></section></font></section></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p></section><section style="line-height: 2; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 0px 10px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">1. </strong>亲子阅读是一种带有温度的生活方式。不要把它作为负担。<span style="color: rgb(253, 134, 79);box-sizing: border-box;">家长也要多阅读</span>，给孩子树立一个好榜样，让他们看到你在阅读，孩子最开始模仿的，就是父母；家长在阅读中也可以充实自己，提升阅读品味、锻炼阅读眼光，去发现那些真正理解、表现儿童的作品；</font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">2. </strong>不要把亲子阅读的时间仅仅局限在睡前，这只是亲子阅读的一部分。<span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;color: rgb(253, 134, 79);box-sizing: border-box;">设立家庭读书日</span><span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;box-sizing: border-box;">，将读书作为家庭的集体活动之一，也可以把赠书带入家庭节日传统中。人类学家玛格丽特·米德认为：“孩子喜欢规律生活带来的安全感”。固定的仪式对孩子来说是及其重要的；</span></font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">3. </strong><span style="color: rgb(253, 134, 79);box-sizing: border-box;">亲子阅读有多种形式</span>，大声诵读、声情并茂得演绎等，对孩子来说是一件非常有趣的事情。当然，如果孩子喜欢安静地读，那一定也是一个很温馨的画面。</font></p></section><section style="text-align: center; margin: 20px 0% 0px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 90%;height: auto;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 10px;border-style: none;border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62);overflow: hidden;box-sizing: border-box;"><span><font size="3" face="宋体">https://www.gongyi020.com/data/attachment/forum/202103/21/faf9db3204e30a5fa7eed157a25aab26.jpeg</font></span></section></section><section style="line-height: 2; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 0px 10px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;margin: 10px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;align-self: center;flex: 0 0 0%;height: auto;line-height: 1;padding: 0px;margin: 0px -10px 0px 0px;z-index: 1;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 15px;height: 15px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><section><font size="3" face="宋体"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></font></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;border-style: solid;border-width: 3px;border-color: rgb(236, 211, 201);padding: 3px 5px;flex: 100 100 0%;align-self: center;height: auto;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin: 0px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="background-color: rgb(236, 211, 201);height: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section><section style="margin: 3px 0% 0px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="color: rgb(106, 106, 106); line-height: 2; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 0px 10px; box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-align: center;white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">三、常 见 回 应 误 区</font></strong></p></section></section><section style="margin: 0px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="background-color: rgb(236, 211, 201);height: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;align-self: center;flex: 0 0 0%;height: auto;line-height: 1;z-index: 1;margin: 0px 0px 0px -10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 15px;height: 15px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><section><font size="3" face="宋体"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></font></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p></section><section style="line-height: 2; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 0px 10px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(62, 62, 62, 0.76); box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">● “告诉妈妈，这是什么动物？你知道的我教过你。”</font></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(62, 62, 62, 0.76); box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">● “想想看，他对不对？”</font></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(62, 62, 62, 0.76); box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">● “他为什么这么做啊？”</font></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(62, 62, 62, 0.76); box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">● ……</font></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">相信不少家长在和孩子亲子阅读时，都问过类似以上的问题。家长们的出发点其实是好的：</font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(62, 62, 62, 0.76); box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">——阅读不就是要学各种知识嘛。</font></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(62, 62, 62, 0.76); box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">——我不问怎么知道孩子懂不懂？</font></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(62, 62, 62, 0.76); box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">——亲子阅读需要亲子互动呀！</font></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">但其实，这些提问：</font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><span style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">1. </strong></span>会破坏整个阅读的连贯性和孩子沉浸书中的情感体验；</font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><span style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">2. </strong></span>家长看问题的角度很多都已经被定性了，从他们的角度提问，对孩子的思维发散性是一个很大的限制；</font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);box-sizing: border-box;">3. </span></strong>这些不恰当的问题提多了，孩子答不上来或者感觉无趣，渐渐就会产生阅读焦虑感，并演变成拒绝阅读。</font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p></section><section style="text-align: left; margin: 10px 0% 0px; justify-content: flex-start; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;min-width: 10%;max-width: 100%;vertical-align: top;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 100%;vertical-align: top;background-color: rgb(243, 226, 211);border-width: 1px;border-radius: 100px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(195, 141, 94);overflow: hidden;letter-spacing: 0px;padding: 10px 20px;line-height: 1;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="transform: translate3d(1px, 0px, 0px);-webkit-transform: translate3d(1px, 0px, 0px);-moz-transform: translate3d(1px, 0px, 0px);-o-transform: translate3d(1px, 0px, 0px);margin: 0px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="text-align: justify;color: rgb(105, 62, 51);letter-spacing: 2px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">问题建议<br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></strong></p></section></section></section><section style="transform: translate3d(20px, 0px, 0px);-webkit-transform: translate3d(20px, 0px, 0px);-moz-transform: translate3d(20px, 0px, 0px);-o-transform: translate3d(20px, 0px, 0px);margin: -1px 0% 0px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 20px;height: 20px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;line-height: 0;letter-spacing: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;margin: 0px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 90%;box-sizing: border-box;"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" x="0px" y="0px" viewBox="0 0 38.4 26.9" style="vertical-align: middle;max-width: 100%;width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;" width="100%"><path d="M6.5,0c0.1,0,5.5,0.6,4.9,5.9c-0.9,7.8-4,14.1-8.5,19.3c11.8-2.8,19.6-9.6,24.2-19.1c0-0.1,0.1-0.1,0.1-0.2C29.9,0.7,37.2,0,38.4,0" fill="rgb(243,226,211)" style="box-sizing: border-box;"></path><path d="M0,26.9l2.1-2.3c4.7-5.3,7.4-11.1,8.3-18c0.1-1.2-0.1-2.2-0.7-2.9C8.5,2.2,6.4,2,6.4,2V0c0,0,2.9,0.2,4.7,2.2c1.1,1.2,1.5,2.8,1.3,4.6c-0.7,6.2-3,11.7-6.7,16.6c9.3-2.8,16.2-8.5,20.5-16.9c0-0.1,0.1-0.2,0.1-0.3l0,0c3.2-6,12-6.2,12.1-6.2v2c-0.1,0-7.6,0.3-10.3,5.1c0,0.1-0.1,0.2-0.1,0.3l0,0c-5,9.9-13.3,16.2-24.9,18.8L0,26.9z" fill="rgb(195,141,94)" style="box-sizing: border-box;"></path></svg></section></section></section></section></font></section></section><section style="line-height: 2; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 0px 10px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);box-sizing: border-box;">1. </span></strong>在<span style="color: rgb(253, 134, 79);box-sizing: border-box;">阅读过程</span>中，爸爸妈妈们可以尽量<span style="color: rgb(253, 134, 79);box-sizing: border-box;">减少对孩子的提问</span>，这样对孩子集中注意力也有帮助；</font></p><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);box-sizing: border-box;">2. </span></strong>当孩子读完书的时候，家长可以以一种轻松闲适的口吻，和孩子一起讨论这个故事、<span style="color: rgb(253, 134, 79);box-sizing: border-box;">聊书</span>，这时候的提问不但可以帮助孩子强化记忆，还能倾听孩子的的想法，走进孩子的内心；</font></p><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">3. </strong>家长不要总在亲子阅读后进行道理归纳，虽然这很难克制。我们声情并茂或者娓娓道来地把故事演绎了，孩子的阅读就完成了。很多东西<span style="color: rgb(253, 134, 79);box-sizing: border-box;">需要孩子自己去理解</span>，不然作者为什么不直接写，直接画我们认为对的“道理”？</font></p><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体">你喜欢和孩子说道理，那么孩子不是变成懂道理的孩子，而是变成喜欢和别人说道理的孩子。</font></p><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p></section><section style="text-align: left; 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letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 0px 10px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;box-sizing: border-box;">1. </span></strong><span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;box-sizing: border-box;">有条件可以多带孩子参加<span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;color: rgb(253, 134, 79);box-sizing: border-box;">读书会</span>，或者自己创建一个<span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;color: rgb(253, 134, 79);box-sizing: border-box;">家庭阅读俱乐部</span>；</span></font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">2. </strong>鼓励孩子自己<span style="color: rgb(253, 134, 79);box-sizing: border-box;">续写</span>，或者<span style="color: rgb(253, 134, 79);box-sizing: border-box;">创作</span>一个故事，并鼓励他和小伙伴们一起<span style="color: rgb(253, 134, 79);box-sizing: border-box;">分享</span>；创造机会，让孩子多多给他人讲故事或者诵读，给孩子展现自己收获信心的机会；</font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;box-sizing: border-box;">3. </span></strong><span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;box-sizing: border-box;">和孩子一起设立一个<span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;color: rgb(253, 134, 79);box-sizing: border-box;">阅读目标</span>，或者设立一些“<span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;color: rgb(253, 134, 79);box-sizing: border-box;">家庭科研项目</span>”；比如怎样设计一次旅行或者如何根据动物习性给它们做名片等，然后就可以和孩子一起翻阅书籍啦；</span></font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">4<span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;box-sizing: border-box;">. </span></strong><span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;box-sizing: border-box;">家长们也可以多跟绘本艺术家、著名作家、优秀家长、老师等学习：</span></font></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">来源：点灯人教育qjmyddr</p><p style="white-space: normal;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></p></section><section style="line-height: 2; 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