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“逗娃”,童年阴影的源头…

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border-box;"><span>https://www.gongyi020.com/data/attachment/forum/202104/07/6121e071830f46921b8513ce6d8a5044.jpeg</span></section></section><section style="text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box;"><span>https://www.gongyi020.com/data/attachment/forum/202104/07/d52182d10cf1ac89deea832635226e93.jpeg</span></section></section></section><section style="white-space: normal;text-align: center;line-height: normal;"><br></section><p style="line-height: normal;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><font size="3" face="宋体">心理学家曾做过一个实验:</font></span></p><p style="line-height: normal;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br></font></p><p style="line-height: normal;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><font size="3" face="宋体">研究者让实验人员冒充成权威化学家,然后在学生面前,通过各种方式吹捧他。让学生在心理上,形成他是权威化学家根深蒂固的印象。</font></span></p><p style="line-height: normal;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br></font></p><p style="line-height: normal;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><font size="3" face="宋体">当这些准备做好之后,假扮的化学家当着学生的面,拿起装有蒸馏水的试管,告诉学生们试管里装有的是一种特殊的化学物质。这时,化学家再让能闻到气味的学生举手。结果班级内大多数的学生都举起了右手,表示能闻到那种特殊的气味。</font></span></p><p style="line-height: normal;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br></font></p><p style="line-height: normal;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><font size="3" face="宋体">无色无味的蒸馏水,在“权威人士”的暗示下,出现了“气味”。</font></span></p><p style="line-height: normal;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br></font></p><p style="line-height: normal;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><font size="3" face="宋体">这种现象,在心理学上叫做“权威暗示效应”。</font></span></p><p style="line-height: normal;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br></font></p><p style="line-height: normal;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><font size="3" face="宋体">对于小孩子来说,成年人就是他们心中的“权威”。</font></span></p><p style="line-height: normal;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br></font></p><p style="line-height: normal;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><font size="3" face="宋体">成年人的任何“玩笑”,他们都会当真。再加上,孩子没有复杂的思维能力,也无法识别复杂的“玩笑”。</font></span></p><p style="line-height: normal;"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br></font></p><p style="line-height: normal;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><font size="3" face="宋体">当孩子把“玩笑”当真,他们的心灵也会受到伤害。</font></span></p><p style="line-height: normal;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><font size="3" face="宋体"><br></font></span></p><p style="line-height: normal;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><font size="3" face="宋体">孩子的世界很小,只能装下身边的方寸。请不要让所谓的“玩笑”和“无心之举”,成为跟随他们一辈子的阴影与梦靥。</font></span></p><p style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></p><section data-mpa-template="t" mpa-from-tpl="t"><section data-mpa-template="t" mpa-from-tpl="t"><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;widows: 1;line-height: 28.4444px;border-width: 0px;border-style: none;" mpa-from-tpl="t"><p style="margin-top: 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