停止夸孩子“你真聪明”！斯坦福大学教授忠告：请用以下15种语境鼓励孩子
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<section style="display: none;" data-tools="新媒体管家" data-label="powered by xmt.cn" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><br></section><section style="margin-top: -52px;margin-right: 25px;white-space: normal;line-height: 25.6px;"><p style="text-align: right;"><br></p></section><section data-source="bj.weixin005.com" style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;border-width: 1px;border-style: dashed;border-color: transparent;line-height: normal;font-size: 14px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: -4px;padding: 10px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;background-color: rgb(239, 239, 239);"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">斯坦福大学教授Carol Dweck很严肃地提到，<span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(61, 167, 66);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">赞美孩子的天赋而非他的努力、策略和选择，可是在慢性地扼杀他的成长型思维哦！</span>因为成长型思维和固定型思维最大的区别是，固定型思维模式的人会认为自己的智力和能力是定量的，不会变化的。而<span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(61, 167, 66);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">拥有成长型思维模式的人是“能力渐进论者”，他们相信自己的能力可以通过努力得到提升。</span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">所以，当孩子表现好时夸他们“聪明”，会让他们认为自己的能力只和那些定量的天赋有关。Carol Dweck教授在这方面做了大量研究，她指出，<span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(61, 167, 66);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">拥有成长型思维的孩子做事不易放弃，更能从过程中享受到乐趣，更容易寻求帮助，复原力也更强。</span></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;white-space: normal;display: inline-block;word-wrap: break-word !important;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="margin-top: 0.2em;padding-right: 0.5em;padding-bottom: 5px;padding-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;border-color: black;color: rgb(42, 52, 58);line-height: 1;font-family: inherit;font-size: 1.8em;text-decoration: inherit;border-bottom-width: 1px;border-bottom-style: solid;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 20px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 20px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">停止说"你真聪明"</span></strong></span></p></section><section style="margin: 5px 1em;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(250, 153, 14);line-height: 1;font-family: inherit;font-size: 18px;font-weight: bold;text-decoration: inherit;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 104, 39);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">开始说...</span></section></section></section><p><br></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(66, 63, 63);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">1. 你很努力啊！</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 104, 39);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">—— 表扬努力</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">You tried really hard on that.</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">当孩子给你呈现一幅漂亮的作品时，可不要被喜悦冲昏头脑，请记得肯定他为此付出的艰辛和努力。</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(66, 63, 63);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">2. 尽管很难，但你一直没有放弃。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 104, 39);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">—— 表扬坚毅</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">You never gave up, even when it was hard.</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">当孩子完成一件对他来说很有挑战的事情时，比如苦思冥想一个围棋残局，一次次尝试操场上高高的攀爬架，无数次失败后无数次反复尝试，请记得肯定他的耐心和坚持。</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(66, 63, 63);line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">3. 你做事情的态度非常不错。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 104, 39);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">—— 表扬态度</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">You have such a positive attitude.</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">当孩子对面临的任务充满了积极向上的正能量时，可不要忘了抓住机会美言几句。</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(66, 63, 63);line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">4.你在______上进步了很多！</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 104, 39);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">—— 表扬细节</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">You have really improved on ______.</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">当孩子在某方面能力有所提高时，表扬细节，越具体越好，比如：宝贝，你现在游泳时手上姿势更标准了，而且换气频率也更加均匀了，比之前进步了很多，真棒！</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(66, 63, 63);line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">5. 这个方法真有新意！</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 104, 39);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">—— 表扬创意</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">What a creative solution to that problem!</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这是最需要注意的地方，看到孩子的奇思妙想，最容易让人跟“聪明“挂钩起来，可是奇思妙想真的是“聪明”吗？它应该是创意和思考的积累哦，是孩子在尝试无数次可能性方案之后才收获的脑洞大开呢！所以，表扬”有创意“就对啦！</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(66, 63, 63);line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">6. 你和小伙伴们合作得真棒！</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 104, 39);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">—— 表扬合作精神</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">You work very well with your classmates.</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">一个人无论多能干，能做的事情也是有限的，如果孩子和小伙伴一起合作完成了某件事，做得还不错，请一定要抓住机会肯定孩子的合作沟通能力吧！</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(66, 63, 63);line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">7. 这件事情你负责得很好！</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 104, 39);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">—— 表扬领导力</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">I love how you took ownership of that!</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">有些事虽然不完全是孩子一个人做的，但他是负责管理的，做得好是因为他有很强的责任心和领导能力，表扬到这个点上，能让孩子知道，虽然他并没有在每个步骤上亲历亲为，但能made it happen，也是一种十分重要的能力。</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(66, 63, 63);line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">8.你一点都不怕困难，太难得了！</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 104, 39);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">—— 表扬勇气</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">You are not afraid of a challenge! I like that!</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">表扬孩子的勇气，是最能帮助他涨“自信指数“的时候。</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(66, 63, 63);line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">9. 你帮_____完成了她的任务，真不错！</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 104, 39);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">—— 表扬热心</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">You did a great job of helping ___with her assignment.</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">“赠人玫瑰，手有余香”，助人是一种美德，一定要表扬孩子的热心，鼓励他多多帮助别人。同时也能让他知道，克服困难的方法有很多种，除了自己的耐心坚持，向别人求助，从别人的经验中学习，也是非常有效的办法呢。</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(66, 63, 63);line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">10. 你把自己的房间/书收拾整理得真好。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 104, 39);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">—— 表扬责任心和条理性</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">You have taken great care of your room/books.</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">能把自己的地盘整理好、把物品收拾好、照顾好，是有责任心，做事有条理的体现，这是孩子能做好其他事情的基础，表扬和鼓励那是必须的。</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(66, 63, 63);line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">11.我相信你，因为______。</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 104, 39);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">—— 表扬信用</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">I know I can trust you because ______.</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">良好的信用会让孩子的人生道路更加顺畅，所以要适时帮他建立。比如和孩子约定什么时，可以说 “我相信你，因为前几次你说话都算数”，“我相信你，你一定会找到好办法“……</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(66, 63, 63);line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">12.你今天参加活动时表现得很好！</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 104, 39);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">—— </span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">表扬参与</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">You did a great job of participating today!</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">参与活动，能开拓视野，吸收更多的养分，当孩子积极踊跃的参加活动，并在活动中表现不错时，一定要鼓励他的参与感。</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(66, 63, 63);line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">13.你很重视别人的意见，这点做得非常好。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 104, 39);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">—— 表</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">扬开放虚心的态度</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">It is so nice that you value other people’s opinions.</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">从别人身上吸取好的建议和经验，自己能力也会不断提高，拥有成长型思维的人一般都有着开放虚心的态度</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(66, 63, 63);line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">14.真高兴你做出这样的选择。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 104, 39);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">—— 表扬选择</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">I am so proud that you made that choice.</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">能出色地完成任务，有时是因为努力，有时却是因为改变了策略，做出了正确的选择。表扬策略，也是培养成长型思维的关键呢。</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(66, 63, 63);line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">15.你记得_____! 想得真棒！</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 104, 39);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 20px;font-size: 16.87px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">—— 表扬细心</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">You remembered to ____! Great thinking!</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">细心不仅体现在谨小慎微，更体现在孩子考虑问题的全面性和多角度。出门玩的时候，孩子不忘带伞，后来下雨了还真用得着，原来出门前细心的孩子特意查看了当日天气预报，这时候，爸爸妈妈就该表扬一下他的细心和考虑周全啦。</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background: white;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0em 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;text-align: justify;vertical-align: baseline;line-height: 2em;background: white;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(115, 115, 114);line-height: 20px;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">类似这样的实践方法简单明了，这也是为什么我一直坚持与各位妈妈们分享的原因，因为这些东西对大家都有用啊，一看就能懂，拿来就能用啊。</span></p><p style="text-align: right;"><span style="font-size: 14px;">（本文来源于当代教育家，转载请注明出处）</span></p><p><br></p>
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