青春期孩子出现“14岁”现象，父母再难也要陪孩子度过！
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14岁的孩子，正当青春期，易冲动、不听劝，但同时，14岁又是一个可塑性最强的“造型期”，面对这些迫切要长大、要独立的孩子，家长该怎么办呢？
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border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 24px;letter-spacing: 1px;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">- <span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-style: italic;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">1</span> -</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">“14岁”现象</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">前段时间，媒体报道了一则骇人的新闻：</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><blockquote style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.498039);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">14岁少年小肖在网吧刺杀了自己的父亲。报道中写道，小肖的作业本里有一道题，“当你的父母错怪了你时，你会怎么办？”</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">他如此回答：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">宽容、沟通、交流。<span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">可以相信，他是一个心存善念的人，也希望自己能与父母沟通。</span></span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">但是，正如新闻里描述的，当爸爸把他从网吧里揪出来扇耳光时，他没有说一句话。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">接下来，他向爸爸掏出了弹簧刀……</span></p></blockquote><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">在这起弑父的人伦惨剧中，不难注意到，这位少年正好处在14岁的年龄。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">无独有偶，在近期的现代教育大讲堂中，主讲嘉宾、北京市关心青少年协会副会长冉乃彦提道：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">当孩子达到14岁左右的年龄时，许多家长会发现，原本听话懂事的孩子变得越来越叛逆，而且心思敏感、脆弱，遇事多疑又不愿向家长倾诉，甚至学习成绩欠佳、行为习惯不良……</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 24px;letter-spacing: 1px;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">- <span style="max-width: 100%;font-style: italic;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">2</span> -</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">“14岁”是个危险期</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 15px;line-height: 30px;border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: initial;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">英国科学家曾进行过的一项研究证实，</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">青少年最容易出现打架、叛逆、学坏的年龄是14岁。</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">英国研究者对９～３５岁的男性参与者进行了调查记录，受试者被要求玩电脑游戏。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">通过记录参与者对游戏结果的满意或者失望程度，科学家对他们每一个人的情绪反应进行了分析。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">结果发现，</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">青少年更热衷于能够让他们感到刺激的危险行为，其中14岁的少年最为突出。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">英国伦敦大学学院神经科学家分析认为：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">“与儿童有所不同，<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">青少年能够权衡自身行为的好坏利弊，但他们更关注这些行为能否给自己带来快乐和刺激，而不是安全与否。</strong>”</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">还有一些初中年级段的班主任教师反映，14岁左右的年龄属于成长中的一个</span><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">“危险期”</strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">，这个年龄的孩子容易出现心理问题。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">王老师是一位有着十余年初中教学经验的班主任教师，她曾针对14岁左右学生的教育问题撰写过一篇论文。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">王老师提到，14岁左右的学生通常存在以下六种心理特征：</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><blockquote style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.498039);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第一，自我感觉“长大了”，表现自我的意识增强；</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第二，不成熟，讲歪理；</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第三，过于自信形成自负心理；</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第四，意志薄弱，适应性差，承受压力的心理空洞出现；</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第五，出现消沉、颓废、麻木、情感冷漠等不正常情感；</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第六，出现暴躁、报复、易激动、寻求刺激等现象。</strong></span></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">王老师举了一个例子：</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">一名姓张的男生，学习成绩优良，却在与同学相处中常常出口伤人，动辄打人。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">他多次学着影片中的武打动作伤及他人。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">当问及他做这些事时是怎样想的，这位男生的回答却是轻描淡写：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“和同学并没有矛盾，就是想发泄。”</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 24px;letter-spacing: 1px;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">- <span style="max-width: 100%;font-style: italic;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">3</span> -</strong><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">“14岁”是最佳塑造期</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 15px;line-height: 30px;border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: initial;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">尽管14岁左右的孩子出现这样或那样的问题，但教育专家冉乃彦在接受记者采访时强调说：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“14岁是危险叛逆期，更是最佳塑造期。”</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">作家柳青说：</strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">人生的道路虽然漫长，但关键的常常只有几步，特别是当人年轻的时候。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">冉乃彦认为，对孩子来说，</span><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">14</strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">岁左右的年龄就是这样的关键期，家长要抓好孩子的这段关键期。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">为了说明少年期在孩子成长过程中的关键性，他举了几个成功名人的故事：</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><blockquote style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.498039);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">桥梁专家茅以升14岁看到桥梁垮塌压死人后立志要修建最牢固的桥；</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">14岁的爱因斯坦和两个同伴谈论世界新闻、科学成就，后来他们三个全部成为科学家。</span></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">冉乃彦强调说：</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><blockquote data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="90" data-source-title="" style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.498039);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">“14岁左右的孩子是‘半成熟’的，既有独立成熟的一面，又限于经验、年龄独立不起来，也就造成了家庭教育最困难的时期。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">在这一阶段，家长一定要下足功夫，把问题妥善解决，让孩子顺利发展。”</span></p></section></section></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 24px;letter-spacing: 1px;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">- <span style="max-width: 100%;font-style: italic;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">4</span> -</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">家长怎么做</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 15px;line-height: 30px;border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: initial;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">那么，作为家长，我们能给孩子哪些引导和支持呢？</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">对于这一年龄孩子的家庭教育来说</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">，家长最难处理的问题，就在于“叛逆”、“不听劝”，很多家长因为孩子的叛逆，产生了很大的心理压力。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">他们主要有如下四种表现：<br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><blockquote style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.498039);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">1. 很多家长会认为这个叛逆的孩子是这辈子用来折磨自己的，这是典型的受害者心态。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">2. 面对叛逆的孩子，自己感到无能为力，完全失去了对孩子的操控能力；</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">3. 孩子已经让家长疲惫不堪，陷于绝望，同时对生活失去了信心和热情；</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">4. 很多家长感觉到很自卑，责怪自己教育孩子的无能和失败。</span></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-size: 16px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: initial;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">既然这四种心态都是不可取的，家长在对待孩子玩的叛逆问题时，到底应该注意些什么？</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-size: 16px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: initial;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">1. 无条件接纳孩子、爱孩子</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-size: 16px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: initial;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多时候孩子不是故意和家长对着干，而是由于成长期的家庭教育或生理原因还有环境中的影响；</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以家长们了解了这些成因后，首先要做的就是接纳和理解孩子，不要再埋怨孩子；</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">还要知道，叛逆期只是一个人成长过程中短暂的一个时期，它很快就会过去；</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以家长们能无条件的接纳和爱孩子，帮助孩子们把这个时期尽快度过去，未来你的孩子才会更爱你，更尊敬你。</span></strong></span></p></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-size: 16px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: initial;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-size: 16px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: initial;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">2. 家长要认知自我，改变自我</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-size: 16px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: initial;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在这一点上，希望家长能够重视起来，因为很多家长在自己的成长过程中，对自我不了解；</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">甚至自己并不成熟，遇到事情并不能理性客观的去解决问题；</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">甚至有的家长自己也极端情绪化，没等孩子发脾气，自己就先发火了，那么家长这种不理智的情绪状态，在教育孩子的过程中，很多时候是使孩子叛逆的导火索，</span><span style="max-width: 100%;caret-color: red;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">因为教育孩子的前提就是要有平和的心态。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;caret-color: red;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以希望家长能改变自己，把控好自己的情绪状态，这样你的教育才是有效的。</strong></span></p></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-size: 16px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: initial;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">3. 陪伴是最好的爱</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-size: 16px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: initial;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在这个时期的孩子，还有一个心理特点，就是他们经常是处在混乱和矛盾的心理状态之中；</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">虽然他们觉得自己长大了，想像一个成人一样去处理问题和解决问题，但是因为他们缺乏相关的经验；</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以很多时候他们是失败的，那这种失败再结合典型的混乱矛盾心理，让孩子此时的心理状态非常痛苦；</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果家长此刻能带着无条件的接纳和爱陪伴着孩子，孩子会感受到家庭的温暖，这种温暖会让孩子的叛逆减少很多，</span><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">所以家长们可以试一试。</span></span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-size: 16px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: initial;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">4. 父母应留下一点自己的时间</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-size: 16px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: initial;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母关爱孩子，但不能成为孩子的保姆，上下学接送，孩子看书，自己陪读，一切围着孩子转，让孩子产生依赖性。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母应该主动地寻找一点时间和空间，暂把孩子放在一边。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这不是不管孩子，只是为孩子创造更好的心理环境。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 25.6px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">抚养孩子并不意味着父母要放弃个人的需要和夫妻间的交流。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">利用这点空闲，夫妻间多交流与沟通，夫妻关系的和谐对家庭稳定至关重要。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不少家庭，正是因为夫妻不和，整日吵架，甚至闹离婚，使孩子受到极大的伤害，父母形象地位在孩子心目中大打折扣，这是应努力避免的。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 25.6px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">另外，</span><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母需要这点空闲时间做点自己喜欢的事情</strong>，</span><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">远离繁琐的家务和工作，调整一下自己的心情，放松一下紧张的神经。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">要有一点幽默感，不要为自己的一点点错误懊悔不已。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">相信自己是一位好父母。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 15px;margin-left: 15px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">善于工作，善于休息，才能更善于教养孩子。</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: right;"><span style="font-size: 12px;"><br></span></p><p style="text-align: right;"><span style="font-size: 12px;">（本文来源于初中生家长，转自今日教育传媒，版权属于原作者，如有侵权，请联系我们处理）</span></p><p style="text-align: right;"><br></p></section></section></section>
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