gongyi020 发表于 2021-5-16 23:10:41

教育孩子的十二法则,家长请收藏 | 精选

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                  <p style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><br></p><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 20px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 677px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0) 0px 0px 0px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 15px;line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 0px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;">家长总是不断想方法给孩子创造健康快乐的成长环境,帮助他们更好地成长。在这一过程中,有哪些地方需要注意?</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(135, 93, 30);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">今天与大家分享12条教育孩子法则,希望对您有所启发。</strong></span></p></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 20px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 677px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0) 0px 0px 0px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 15px;line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 0px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><strong style="color: rgb(158, 114, 84);font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 244, 226);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">归属法则:</strong>这条看起来是不言而喻的,哪个家长不想给孩子创造健康环境?<span style="letter-spacing: 1px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">但实际上也不尽然,有些家长有此心却不懂如何做。</span><br></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;">比如过分溺爱娇惯顺从孩子,由着孩子瞎吃瞎玩,不锻炼不劳动,养成不健康的生活习惯。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;">家长之间有矛盾、经常争吵也是不健康的家庭环境。破碎家庭、长期分离的家庭更让孩子缺少归属感。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;">如果家庭变化不可避免,家长要用正面的健康的方式来安慰疏导孩子,而不可采取疏于管教或溺爱或过分严厉等极端措施,更不能因家庭破裂而迁怒于子女。</span></p></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 20px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 677px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0) 0px 0px 0px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 15px;line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 0px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: justify;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><strong style="color: rgb(158, 114, 84);font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 244, 226);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">希望法则:</strong>家长们都是对孩子寄予希望的,但是否永远用正面鼓励的话语让孩子们看到希望,认为自己确实有希望呢?<br></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: justify;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: justify;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我们对孩子期待值颇高,却不善于用希望法则,而爱找差距挑毛病,</span>孩子得了95分,只纠结在为什么丢了5分上。高标准严要求固然正确,但无形中也会扼杀孩子的很多希望。</span></p></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 20px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 677px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0) 0px 0px 0px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 15px;line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 0px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: justify;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><strong style="color: rgb(158, 114, 84);font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 244, 226);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">力量法则:</strong>成人总是比孩子有力量,无论是拼体力还是斗智能和经验。因此大人与孩子较劲斗强本来就不平等,胜利了也不光彩。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: justify;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: justify;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;">当然,大人可以和孩子比赛一些他们擅长的具体项目,比如下棋等,但不要完全以输赢为目的。家长、老师以及与孩子关系密切的成年人,不可采用与孩子赌气等方式去刺激孩子。<span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">对心理感情处于不成熟阶段的少儿来说,“激将法”是不合适的。</span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: justify;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: justify;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果孩子与大人吵架赌气,无论谁有理,大人都要主动与他们和解。</span>成年人还要勇于承认自己的错误,尤其对孩子,该道歉该认错要及时进行。如果家长知错不改或不认,觉得在孩子面前认错是丢脸,也会让孩子学得固执己见。</span></p></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 20px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 677px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0) 0px 0px 0px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 15px;line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 0px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: justify;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(158, 114, 84);font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 244, 226);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">管理法则:</strong>未成年的孩子自我克制能力尚不成熟,父母必须负起管理责任。</span>但这种管束应该是充满亲情、人性化、科学而理性的,不可采用简单粗暴的命令式,毫不顾及和尊重孩子的想法和人格。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: justify;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: justify;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;">另一方面,未成年孩子把家长视为靠山,<span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">合理的管教关怀,会让孩子们有安全感和被支持感,</span>遇到问题危难会求助于家长。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: justify;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: justify;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;">如果家长平时对孩子的一切(学业、表现、爱好等)太听之任之,好像是给孩子更多自由,但孩子却会因为感觉家长对自己“不在乎”而产生疏远。</span></p></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 20px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 677px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0) 0px 0px 0px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 15px;line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 0px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(158, 114, 84);font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 244, 226);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">声音法则:</strong>平等地对待孩子,给他们发言权,倾听他们的声音,他们才会说出真实思想。</span>如果大人不尊重孩子的想法,忽视他们的心声,久而久之,他们会不敢对家长说真话,不爱与家长交流。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;">而且,家长是孩子的老师和榜样,如果家长不耐心倾听孩子的话,孩子也会学样,不肯听大人的话,不懂得如何尊重他人。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;">对年幼的孩子,哪怕他们讲话词不达意,大人也要耐心地与他们交谈。<span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">任何粗暴打断或嘲笑他们讲话的行为,都会对孩子产生伤害,</span>可能会影响他们的表达能力从而羞于在人前开口,也不要令孩子非要不合时宜地插话以引起大人的注意。</span></p></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 20px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 677px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0) 0px 0px 0px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 15px;line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 0px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(158, 114, 84);font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 244, 226);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">榜样法则</strong>:“以身作则,言传身教”是放之四海而皆准的。</span>孩子的教养、兴趣、爱好等,多半来自生长环境的耳濡目染。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">父母、兄姐、亲友、师长、社会关系等都对孩子产生影响。</span><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">除了家庭内的榜样,也要注意所交往的社会关系和常去的场合对孩子的影响</span>。家长还要关注孩子喜欢看的影视作品,了解他们心目中的偶像是什么样。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 16px;">如果发现孩子误交损友,不要武断地阻止他们来往,而要了解情况。孩子们都需要友谊,害怕孤独,要为孩子寻找和扩展新的健康友谊圈。</span></p></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></section></section><p style="text-align: center;"><span></span></p><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 20px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 677px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0) 0px 0px 0px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 15px;line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 0px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><strong style="color: rgb(158, 114, 84);font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 244, 226);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">求同存异法则:</strong>孩子和成人的看法往往不同,他们会有很多不符合常规的幻想。其实这些正是童心的可爱之处,<span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果大人认为孩子的想法奇怪而泼冷水,会扼杀他们的想象力和好奇心,</span>也会让他们因为得不到理解而失望。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;">另一方面,很多时候,纯真的孩子才有客观的看法,敢于说出真理。<span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">童言无忌,要结合“声音法则”,鼓励孩子们敢于表达,</span>正面肯定他们的想法。当然,如果一些看法说法脱离实际或者会引起麻烦,也要耐心地解释。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;">思想和思维方式不成熟的孩子们,往往还无法进行多方位思维,而只会延续自己的思路,因此对事物考虑不周全。家长要尽可能理解少儿思维的特点,可以采用把复杂事物分解简化的方法,分期分批地向他们解释或征求他们的意见。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;">凡是与孩子自己有关的事情,例如搬家转学、选课外活动、参加考试比赛等,一定要先与孩子商量解释,<span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">哪怕不能完全遵循孩子的意见,也要让他们觉得家长是征求了他们的看法的。</span>不然的话,家长的好心很可能没有好报。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(158, 114, 84);background-color: rgb(255, 244, 226);text-align: center;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(158, 114, 84);background-color: rgb(255, 244, 226);text-align: center;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">慎用惩罚法则</strong>:单纯的惩罚,尤其体罚,是非常负面和拙劣的教育方式,也是不文明的,</span>从小被暴力处罚的孩子,很多长大之后也会有暴力倾向。因此不提倡使用惩罚法。但不是不可以批评孩子,而是可以采用适当的方式做些处罚。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">前提是,必须要让孩子认识到做错了事,甘愿接受处罚,以便下不为例。</span>惩罚方式也要合理,可以采取不让他们做喜欢的事情,比如可以罚其几天不许看电视上网玩游戏。</span></p></section></section><br></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 20px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 677px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0) 0px 0px 0px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 15px;line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 0px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">另外,因为连孩子们都知道惩罚是负面的,千万不要把一些应该做的正面事情当作处罚。</span>比如罚孩子劳动,会让他们认为劳动是坏事从而产生厌恶情绪。有个家长责怪年幼的女儿不肯睡觉,就罚她去写五十个字或做十道算术题,孩子被迫做功课当然就要打瞌睡,就又罚她去睡觉。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">这样做看起来暂时达到让她睡觉的目的,却会让孩子把做功课睡觉都当作处罚方式,一做这些事就会有被处罚的感觉,造成心理阴影,那将来还能喜欢写字做算术吗?</span><strong style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(158, 114, 84);background-color: rgb(255, 244, 226);text-align: center;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></strong></span></p></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 20px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 677px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0) 0px 0px 0px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 15px;line-height: 1.8;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="letter-spacing: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><strong style="color: rgb(158, 114, 84);font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 244, 226);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">后果法则:</strong>有时候,孩子惹了什么麻烦或想做什么标新立异的事情,连成人都没搞清楚其后果和危害,就对孩子横加指责或阻止,这当然无法服人。</span></p><p style="letter-spacing: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="letter-spacing: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">若要让孩子心服口服,家长、老师等成年人首先要周密思考每件事的前因后果,</span>然后好好与孩子谈谈,可以从后果的好坏开始,反过来解说该不该这样做,晓之以理,孩子会明白的。</span></p><p style="letter-spacing: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="letter-spacing: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;">其实后果也不都是负面的。成年人的阅历比少儿丰富,应该更具有预见性。比如在指导孩子选择兴趣专长或申报学校时,家长可以对前景作些调查,并根据孩子特点鼓励其往哪方面发展。然而,如果没经过自己头脑分析思考,仅仅随大流赶时髦人云亦云,不是有效的后果分析法,往往会耽误孩子。</span></p><p style="letter-spacing: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><br></span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span></span><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: justify;"></span></p></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 20px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 677px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0) 0px 0px 0px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 15px;line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 0px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><strong style="color: rgb(158, 114, 84);font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 244, 226);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">规矩法则:</strong>教育孩子做到这点并不太难,法制教育融汇在社会生活和<span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">学校教育之中,孩子们从小就受到全方位熏陶,心中都有一道道德底线和法制底线,还往往会反过来影响家长。</span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果不能以身作则为孩子树立遵纪守法的榜样,那么孩子也会目无权威,表现得无法无天无规矩。</span></p></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 20px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 677px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0) 0px 0px 0px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 15px;line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 0px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: justify;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><strong style="color: rgb(158, 114, 84);font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 244, 226);letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: center;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">二十码法则</strong>:这个“二十码”是个象征,<span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">意思是说要注重从小培养孩子的独立性,给孩子留出心理空间。</span>家长不必处处围着孩子转,你觉得是关心照顾他们,孩子们却觉得家长控制得太严。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: justify;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: justify;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">也应允许孩子保有自己的隐私,有自己的主动权和决定权。</span>当然,家长还是要在二十码之外注视着并随时准备切入,而不能跑到二百码或二百里之外撒手不管。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: justify;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: justify;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;">家长对孩子的管理管教,应该注重大的方面,尤其要根据孩子的年龄。年幼的孩子生活学业上或许需要比较具体细致的指导,但也要适当给他们机会锻炼独立性。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: justify;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: justify;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;">进入青春期的孩子则最烦家长事无巨细的询问唠叨,这个年龄的孩子不爱搭理人,但并不代表他们没听见家长的话。因此,<span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">家长不要没完没了地重复一番话直到他们有反应为止,这会引起孩子的反感。</span>与其成为被烦的唠叨家长,不如豁出去让他们耽误一两次而换取教训。</span></p></section></section></section><p style="text-align: center;"><span></span></p><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><strong style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(158, 114, 84);background-color: rgb(255, 244, 226);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">四W法则</strong><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">:</span><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">任何时候都要了解孩子跟谁在一起(who),在什么地方(where),在干什么(what),以及在什么时候回家(when)。</span></span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><br></span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;">有些家长看起来对孩子操心管制很多,可到时候却不知道孩子的这些W,这可算不上好家长。只有上面所有各条法则都做得差不多了,孩子才肯对家长说真话,家长也才能了解到这些“W”。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><br></span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">在网络时代成长的孩子们,已经离不开网络交往,</span><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">家长同样要关注网络世界的这些“W”。</span><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">孩子不是不可以结交网友,但不可瞒着家长,尤其不能背着家长与网友见面。</span></span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">家长则不要武断禁止孩子以不同方式结交朋友,而要试图了解这些朋友。</span><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">而且,家长自己也要做出榜样,因公因私外出时都要及时通报家里人这些“W”,这样做也会让孩子感到,告诉家人这些“W”是必须的。</span></span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 8px;padding-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75;font-size: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif;white-space: normal;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></section><section style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: left;line-height: 2em;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;padding-right: 8px;padding-left: 8px;font-size: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 16px;">转自 |人民教育(irenminjiaoyu)</span></section><section style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: left;line-height: 2em;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;padding-right: 8px;padding-left: 8px;font-size: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 16px;">来源|中国教育三十人论坛</span><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: justify;"></span></section><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: left;line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span style="font-size: 16px;">&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></span></p></section></section></section></section>
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