钱志亮：孩子个性发展的8大缺陷及矫治方法
<div style="max-width:677px !important;"><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: center;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">高一的小钟的偏激是大家公认的：</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="7" style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="white-space: normal;padding-left: 10px;max-width: 100%;border-left: 5px solid rgb(157, 180, 194);box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="font-size: 13px;text-align: justify;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;color: rgba(102, 102, 102,0.8);"><p><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);">看问题绝对性、片面性很强，要么全好，要么皆坏；</span></p></section><br><section style="font-size: 14px;text-align: justify;letter-spacing: 1.5px;line-height: 1.75em;color: #666666;"><p><span style="letter-spacing: 2px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);">按照个人的好恶和一时的心血来潮去论人论事，缺乏理性的态度和客观的标准；</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="letter-spacing: 2px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);">莽撞做事，不顾后果。</span></p></section></section></section><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">经分析，小钟偏激向的产生与其知识经验欠缺、辩证思维有待发展和青春期的生理发育有关。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">预防或纠正少儿的偏激倾向，一方面，要着眼于他们</span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>辩证思维能力</strong></span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">的培养；</span><span style="color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;">另一方面，要加强他们的</span><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">意志力锻炼</span></strong><span style="color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;">，力求通过社会实践来增强他们的认识能力和自控能力。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify; line-height: normal;"><span style="color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;"><br></span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px;"><span></span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;"><br></span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">与小钟偏激相类似的不良个性还有暴躁、嫉妒、狭隘、敌对、依赖、孤僻、自卑、神经质等。</span></p><section style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; white-space: normal; line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><section style="padding-right: 2px;padding-left: 2px;color: rgb(65, 60, 60);line-height: 1.75;letter-spacing: 1.5px;font-size: 15px;"><section data-id="92124" data-tools="135编辑器" style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);letter-spacing: 0.54px;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="border-width: 0px;"><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;width: 677px;text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="background-position: center center;width: 80px;height: 30px;display: inline-block;background-image: url('https://www.gongyi020.com/data/attachment/forum/202105/17/7374843267780e77a217c06ae80ff65d.png');background-repeat: no-repeat;background-size: 100%;background-color: rgb(153, 189, 232);"><section data-width="100%" style="width: 80px;line-height: 30px;letter-spacing: 0.54px;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 20px;">01</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>暴躁儿童的咨询与矫治</strong></span><br></p><section style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em;"><br></section><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">暴躁多见于性格外向兼有神经质倾向的少儿。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">其主要表现包括：沉不住气，易受激惹，听到一句不顺耳的话，往往就火冒三丈，甚至唇枪舌剑、拳脚相加。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">暴躁这种不良的个性倾向，虽然同遗传有一定的联系，但最根本的原因还是</span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>缺乏个人涵养和自我克制的能力。</strong></span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">此外，家庭教育中的放纵、溺爱，也是铸成暴躁脾气个性缺陷的一个重要原因。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">所以，纠正少儿的暴躁倾向，一方面，要使他们懂得暴躁的危害、形成原因及可扭转性；另一方面，要注意因势利导，努力通过日常生活中的小事对他们进行教育和他们的自我教育。</span></p><section style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; white-space: normal; line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><section style="padding-right: 2px;padding-left: 2px;color: rgb(65, 60, 60);line-height: 1.75;letter-spacing: 1.5px;font-size: 15px;"><section data-id="92124" data-tools="135编辑器" style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);letter-spacing: 0.54px;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="border-width: 0px;"><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;width: 677px;text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="background-position: center center;width: 80px;height: 30px;display: inline-block;background-image: url('https://www.gongyi020.com/data/attachment/forum/202105/17/7374843267780e77a217c06ae80ff65d.png');background-repeat: no-repeat;background-size: 100%;background-color: rgb(153, 189, 232);"><section data-width="100%" style="width: 80px;line-height: 30px;letter-spacing: 0.54px;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 20px;">02</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">嫉妒儿童的咨询与矫治</span></strong></span><br></p><section style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em;"><br></section><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">嫉妒是一种忧虑、愤怒和怨恨他人优于自己的复合情绪。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">嫉妒的主要特点是把他人在才能、地位、境遇或相貌等方面的优越之处视为对自己上升的威胁，因而感到忧虑、愤怒和怨恨，往往采用贬低甚至诽谤他人的手段来维护自己的自尊心和虚荣心，以求得心理上的平衡。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;"><br></span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify; line-height: normal;"><mpcpc js_editor_cpcad="" class="js_cpc_area cpc_iframe" src="/cgi-bin/readtemplate?t=tmpl/cpc_tmpl#1620979614821" data-category_id_list="11|16|24|47|5|54" data-id="1620979614821"></mpcpc><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;"></span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;"><br></span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">少儿嫉妒心理的产生有多种来源：</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">◇ 在学习上，有因竞争遇到挫折而产生的嫉妒心理；</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">◇ 在人际交往上，有因友谊的转移或丧失而产生的嫉妒心理；</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">◇ 在社会称许上，有因他人受到表扬，自己受到批评而产生的嫉妒心理；</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">在生理条件上，有因个人的容貌稍欠或身材不佳而对生理条件优越的人产生的嫉妒心理。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">嫉妒心理的产生，同</span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>幼年时期形成的虚荣心理</strong></span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">有很大关系。少儿的争强好胜等个性特点，若引导不当，也会发展成嫉贤妒能。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">预防或纠正少儿的嫉妒心理，最根本的是要加强理想教育和世界观的教育，因为嫉妒不是一种孤立的情绪情感，而要受理想、信念和世界观等的制约。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">只有引导少儿逐步建立共产主义的理想和世界观，嫉妒这种“唯我独尊”的消极个性品质才能从根本上得到消除。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">嫉妒心理也可通过意志力锻炼和注意力转移等方法，得到自我调控和暂时性的排解。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;"><br></span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px;"><span></span></p><section style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; white-space: normal; line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><section style="padding-right: 2px;padding-left: 2px;color: rgb(65, 60, 60);line-height: 1.75;letter-spacing: 1.5px;font-size: 15px;"><section data-id="92124" data-tools="135编辑器" style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);letter-spacing: 0.54px;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="border-width: 0px;"><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;width: 677px;text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="background-position: center center;width: 80px;height: 30px;display: inline-block;background-image: url('https://www.gongyi020.com/data/attachment/forum/202105/17/7374843267780e77a217c06ae80ff65d.png');background-repeat: no-repeat;background-size: 100%;background-color: rgb(153, 189, 232);"><section data-width="100%" style="width: 80px;line-height: 30px;letter-spacing: 0.54px;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 20px;">03</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">狭隘儿童的咨询与矫治</span></strong></span><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">狭隘主要表现在两大方面：</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;"><br></span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">其一是指遇到一点委屈或碰到一点很小的得失，就斤斤计较、耿耿于怀；</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;"><br></span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">其二是指在人际交往上有很大的局限性，如追求少数朋友之间的“哥们儿义气”等。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">狭隘的产生，既同家庭和社会中不良因素的影响有关，也同少儿的认识发展水平有关。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">因此，预防或纠正少儿的狭隘倾向，主要应注意：</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">◇ </span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>加强人生观的教育</strong></span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">，使少儿从狭窄的个人圈子里跳出来，“心底无私”才能“天地宽”，培养集体主义的精神和高尚的情操，指导少儿进行正当的人际交往；</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">◇ </span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>丰富少儿的业余文化生活</strong></span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">，培养他们的兴趣，陶冶他们的情操，使他们在健康向上的文化氛围中找到精神寄托，消除心理压力。</span></p><section style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; white-space: normal; line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><section style="padding-right: 2px;padding-left: 2px;color: rgb(65, 60, 60);line-height: 1.75;letter-spacing: 1.5px;font-size: 15px;"><section data-id="92124" data-tools="135编辑器" style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);letter-spacing: 0.54px;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="border-width: 0px;"><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;width: 677px;text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="background-position: center center;width: 80px;height: 30px;display: inline-block;background-image: url('https://www.gongyi020.com/data/attachment/forum/202105/17/7374843267780e77a217c06ae80ff65d.png');background-repeat: no-repeat;background-size: 100%;background-color: rgb(153, 189, 232);"><section data-width="100%" style="width: 80px;line-height: 30px;letter-spacing: 0.54px;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 20px;">04</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; white-space: normal; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center;"><strong style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1.5px;text-align: center;">敌对儿童的咨询与矫治</strong></p><section style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em;"><br></section><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">敌对是在个人遭受较大挫折引起强烈不满时表现出来的一种反抗态度，是危害性最为明显的一种消极情绪。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">有敌对倾向的人，常常把他人的善意批评或好言相劝看成恶意的举动。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;"><br></span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">他们轻则置若罔闻，重则寻机报复，经常挑起一些带有恶作剧色彩的事端，有的甚至以对他人的戏弄或殴打为乐。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;"><br></span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px;"><span></span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;"><br></span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">敌对心理的产生，同不良的家庭教育、学校教育乃至整个社会中教育工作的失误以及少儿自身心理发展的不成熟有关。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">纠正少儿的敌对倾向，首先要从</span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>对他们的关心、爱护</strong></span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">着手，因为具有敌对倾向的少儿，虽然外表看起来满不在乎，但内心却充满了痛苦和不安。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">所以，教师、家长和其他成年人的关怀、体贴，必将有助于他们敌对情绪的缓和以及对立双方心理上的沟通。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">其次要注意</span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>以理服人，分清是非</strong></span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">，使敌对的少儿在平和的状态下看到自己的缺点和不足，这种认识上的转变对于克服敌对倾向有重要意义。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">除此之外，环境调整、正面鼓励，对化解敌对倾向也有帮助。</span></p><section style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; white-space: normal; line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><section style="padding-right: 2px;padding-left: 2px;color: rgb(65, 60, 60);line-height: 1.75;letter-spacing: 1.5px;font-size: 15px;"><section data-id="92124" data-tools="135编辑器" style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);letter-spacing: 0.54px;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="border-width: 0px;"><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;width: 677px;text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="background-position: center center;width: 80px;height: 30px;display: inline-block;background-image: url('https://www.gongyi020.com/data/attachment/forum/202105/17/7374843267780e77a217c06ae80ff65d.png');background-repeat: no-repeat;background-size: 100%;background-color: rgb(153, 189, 232);"><section data-width="100%" style="width: 80px;line-height: 30px;letter-spacing: 0.54px;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 20px;">05</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">依赖儿童的咨询与矫治</span></strong></span><br></p><section style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em;"><br></section><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">依赖主要表现为对个人的自理能力缺乏信心，遇事企求他人帮助，生活上寻求父母的保护和照顾。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">少儿的依赖倾向如果得不到及时纠正，发展下去有可能形成依赖型人格障碍。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;"><br></span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">依赖的产生大多与</span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>父母的过度保护和照顾</strong></span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">有关，独生子女的优越家庭环境也容易助长依赖的性格。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">纠正少儿的依赖倾向，主要应注意：</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">◇ 要多为具有依赖倾向的少儿提供独立活动的机会，鼓励他们向独立性强的同伴学习；</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">◇ 在家庭要消除一切由父母代劳的习惯，积极指导独生子女提高生活自理能力；</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">◇ 更重要的是，要引导少儿树立自立、自强的人生观和时代观，这是摆脱依赖倾向的最根本动力。</span></p><section style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; white-space: normal; line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><section style="padding-right: 2px;padding-left: 2px;color: rgb(65, 60, 60);line-height: 1.75;letter-spacing: 1.5px;font-size: 15px;"><section data-id="92124" data-tools="135编辑器" style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);letter-spacing: 0.54px;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="border-width: 0px;"><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;width: 677px;text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="background-position: center center;width: 80px;height: 30px;display: inline-block;background-image: url('https://www.gongyi020.com/data/attachment/forum/202105/17/7374843267780e77a217c06ae80ff65d.png');background-repeat: no-repeat;background-size: 100%;background-color: rgb(153, 189, 232);"><section data-width="100%" style="width: 80px;line-height: 30px;letter-spacing: 0.54px;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 20px;">06</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">孤僻儿童的咨询与矫治</span></strong></span><br></p><section style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em;"><br></section><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">孤僻多见于内向的少儿，其主要表现是不合群，对周围的人怀有戒备心理或厌烦情绪，做事喜欢独来独往，疑心较重，好神经过敏。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">孤僻的成因，可能与幼年时期的创伤经验有关，也可能与人际交往中的挫折有关。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;"><br></span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px;"><span></span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;"><br></span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">纠正少儿的孤僻倾向，应当注意：</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">◇ 帮助他们认识孤僻的危害，敞开闭锁的心扉，追求人生的乐趣，这是摆脱孤僻的最重要途径；</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">◇ 帮助他们树立辩证的观点和养成求实的态度，努力缩小人际交往中的知觉误差和心理距离，增加交往的灵活性、适应性，这是驱赶孤僻的必要环节；</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">◇ 积极改善家庭气氛和集体环境，尽量使孤僻的少儿体验到家庭的温暖和集体的关心。</span></p><section style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; white-space: normal; line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><section style="padding-right: 2px;padding-left: 2px;color: rgb(65, 60, 60);line-height: 1.75;letter-spacing: 1.5px;font-size: 15px;"><section data-id="92124" data-tools="135编辑器" style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);letter-spacing: 0.54px;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="border-width: 0px;"><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;width: 677px;text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="background-position: center center;width: 80px;height: 30px;display: inline-block;background-image: url('https://www.gongyi020.com/data/attachment/forum/202105/17/7374843267780e77a217c06ae80ff65d.png');background-repeat: no-repeat;background-size: 100%;background-color: rgb(153, 189, 232);"><section data-width="100%" style="width: 80px;line-height: 30px;letter-spacing: 0.54px;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 20px;">07</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">自卑儿童的咨询与矫治</span></strong></span><br></p><section style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em;"><br></section><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">自卑这种消极的自我评价或自我意识，对人的心理健康和个性发展危害很大。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;"><br></span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">有自卑心理的少儿，看不到自己的长处或优势，觉得处处低人一等，无所作为，悲观失望，甚至消极放弃。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">纠正少儿的自卑倾向，首先要</span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>尽力消除环境中的不良刺激</strong></span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">，努力为他们创造温暖、向上的良好气氛。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;"><br></span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">其次要引导他们</span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>正确认识自己的优点和不足</strong></span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">，树立勤能补拙的信念，学会扬长避短的策略。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">最后要指导他们在遇到挫折的时候</span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>合理地利用心理防御机制</strong></span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">，促进情绪的稳定和心态的平衡。</span></p><section style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; white-space: normal; line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><section style="padding-right: 2px;padding-left: 2px;color: rgb(65, 60, 60);line-height: 1.75;letter-spacing: 1.5px;font-size: 15px;"><section data-id="92124" data-tools="135编辑器" style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);letter-spacing: 0.54px;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="border-width: 0px;"><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;width: 677px;text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="background-position: center center;width: 80px;height: 30px;display: inline-block;background-image: url('https://www.gongyi020.com/data/attachment/forum/202105/17/7374843267780e77a217c06ae80ff65d.png');background-repeat: no-repeat;background-size: 100%;background-color: rgb(153, 189, 232);"><section data-width="100%" style="width: 80px;line-height: 30px;letter-spacing: 0.54px;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 20px;">08</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>神经质儿童的咨询与矫治</strong></span><br></p><section style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em;"><br></section><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">治神经质通常具有易紧张、好激动、多愁善感、敏感疑虑等特点，并常伴有睡眠不好等症状。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">具有神经质倾向的少儿，往往在适应过程中存在一定的困难。临床研究也证明，神经质倾向是引发多种身心疾患的内因之一，对此应引起高度重视。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">神经质倾向的形成固然同个体的高级神经活动类型有关，但也不可忽视</span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>教养态度</strong></span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">在其中所起的作用，例如，不讲民主、专横武断的教养态度，容易引起少儿的神经质倾向。</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><br></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #3F3F3F;">预防或纠正少儿的神经质倾向，一方面，要注意意志品质的锻炼，努力提高他们对情绪的控制能力；</span></p><p style="font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; 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