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gongyi020 发表于 2021-6-14 19:48:02

爱孩子的父母，是让孩子有竞争力，而不是时刻想着竞争

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!important; font-size: 16px;"><font color="#191919" face="PingFang SC, Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif"><b>心理学家指出：孩子过于看重竞争是一种心理障碍，</b></font></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border: 0px;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: PingFang SC, Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">融合了强迫、自恋、神经质、妄想和偏执症状的综合心理障碍。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 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break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">朋友闲来无事，收拾了女儿的房间，却发现了一张“恐怖画”。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">画风很血腥，一个漂亮的女孩被长剑击中，一身的鲜血。女孩用了一个箭头做了标注——琳琳，我今生的仇人。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">琳琳是朋友女儿的同学，是家长们口中“别人家的孩子”，不仅成绩好，长得好漂亮。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一年前，朋友发现女儿和琳琳关系不错，就拿琳琳来“激励”女儿，让女儿把琳琳当成竞争对象，争夺班级第一名。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">听了妈妈的话，朋友女儿说：“我一定会超过她的。”</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">当时朋友还夸了女儿有上进心，并鼓励一定是可以超过琳琳的。可半年过去了，女儿的成绩一直没有超越琳琳，心里气不过，就选了这么一个方式去“报复”琳琳，甚至，还在日记里诅咒琳琳考试生病，出门摔跤，越长越丑。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">现在朋友特别后悔，是自己把女儿变成了一个“心机女孩”，盼着自己好朋友倒霉。</p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: 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100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 8px;padding-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">生活中，像我朋友这样的父母也并不少见，为了激励孩子学习，给孩子树立一个“目标人物”，可以培养孩子的竞争意识，让他们有上进心，从而能够鼓气去学习。</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">其实，很多孩子与生俱来，性格里就有竞争意识，比如，会在意别的小朋友比自己跑得快，长得更好看，希望自己的一切东西比别人好看。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这些竞争意识，在父母给予引导下，并随着年龄的增长，一般都会减弱，不会给孩子的成长造成一些负面的影响。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(255, 9, 26);word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">可是，孩子的过度竞争意识，却需要引起父母的关注。</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 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65);height: 10px;width: 0px;transform: rotate(45deg);transform-origin: left top 0px;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 14px;margin-left: 5px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 19px;width: 1.6em;height: 1.6em;background-color: rgb(255, 9, 26);word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 8px;padding-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有心理学家指出，孩子过于看重竞争是一种心理障碍，融合了强迫、自恋、神经质、妄想和偏执症状的综合心理障碍。</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(255, 9, 26);word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子这种过度的竞争意识，是和父母的教养方式也分不开的。</strong></span>比如，父母在孩子面前夸奖某个人，拿自己的孩子和别的孩子相比较，又或是看重一件事的结果。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">过度的竞争是有毒的，它不仅对孩子的成长不利，也会影响孩子以后的生活和工作。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 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26);color: rgb(255, 255, 255);border-top-left-radius: 5px;border-top-right-radius: 0px;border-bottom-right-radius: 0px;border-bottom-left-radius: 5px;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">增加孩子的心理压力</strong></p></section></section></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 0.5em;height: 1.8em;border-left-width: 0.9em;border-left-style: solid;border-left-color: rgb(255, 9, 26);border-bottom-width: 0.9em;border-bottom-style: solid;border-bottom-color: transparent;border-top-width: 0.9em;border-top-style: solid;border-top-color: transparent;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 8px;padding-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 2;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">过度竞争让孩子在心里给自己设置一个超越目标，孩子背负着“期望”去学习，不会体验到学习的快乐，反而有一种担心“输”的压力。</p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word 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!important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 8px;padding-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 2;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">美国有一个著名的高空走钢丝表演者瓦伦达，在一次重大的表演中，不幸失足身亡，他的妻子事后说：“我知道这一次要出事”，因为瓦伦达在上场前总是不停地说：“这次太重要了，不能失败，绝对不能失败。”<br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">正是因为这种“不能失败”的心理压力，才导致了瓦伦达的失败和失足。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;transform: translate3d(6px, 0px, 0px);word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;height: 1.8em;line-height: 1.8em;background-color: rgb(255, 9, 26);color: rgb(255, 255, 255);border-top-left-radius: 5px;border-top-right-radius: 0px;border-bottom-right-radius: 0px;border-bottom-left-radius: 5px;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">剥夺孩子建立友谊</strong></p></section></section></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 0.5em;height: 1.8em;border-left-width: 0.9em;border-left-style: solid;border-left-color: rgb(255, 9, 26);border-bottom-width: 0.9em;border-bottom-style: solid;border-bottom-color: transparent;border-top-width: 0.9em;border-top-style: solid;border-top-color: transparent;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 8px;padding-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 2;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">随着年龄的增长，孩子在学校和同学们相处的时间，会比和父母在一起都会多。友谊对于他们来说，是一种不可缺少的社会关系，也是成长路上一道美丽的风景线。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">竞争意识过强的孩子会过度关注自己是否赢了同学，难以获得友谊，甚至出现欺凌的现象。</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">朋友的女儿就是一个很好的例子，正是因为过度竞争心理，导致她去诅咒曾经的好朋友琳琳，据说，在班级还搞小集体，用一些小饰品去收买女同学们的心，条件就是不许和琳琳说话，还故意在背后说坏话。</p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word 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top;width: auto;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;height: 1.8em;line-height: 1.8em;background-color: rgb(255, 9, 26);color: rgb(255, 255, 255);border-top-left-radius: 5px;border-top-right-radius: 0px;border-bottom-right-radius: 0px;border-bottom-left-radius: 5px;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 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26);border-bottom-width: 0.9em;border-bottom-style: solid;border-bottom-color: transparent;border-top-width: 0.9em;border-top-style: solid;border-top-color: transparent;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 8px;padding-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 2;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">用过度的竞争意识带动孩子的学习热情，毫无以为是饮鸩止渴。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">当孩子想通过竞争取得好成绩，引起父母的关注，就掉进了一个无底洞。当孩子真正达到“超越”时候，内心只有短暂的喜悦和享受，继而又会进入下一次的竞争，因为会焦虑下一次自己会被超越。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">焦虑会让孩子失去了享受当下的能力，永远为没有发生的事担忧，也没有了幸福感。</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" 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border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 8px;padding-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 2;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">表妹从小就是一个学霸，一年级考试获得了全班第一名，舅妈说班级第一不算什么，年级第一才好。当她后来考了年级第一，舅妈又说，镇上第一才好。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">正是舅妈刻意给表妹灌输了竞争意识，表妹如今是一名博士后，依旧没有幸福感，对于她来说，终有一个比自己强的目标，需要自己去超越。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">今年，她主动去看了心理医生，因为她不想再被没完没了的竞争意识绑架了。</p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word 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100%;box-sizing: border-box;transform: rotate(0deg);border: 1px solid rgb(92, 83, 65);width: 1.6em;height: 1.6em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.6em;font-size: 19px;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">02</p></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;border-right-width: 1px;border-right-style: solid;border-color: rgb(92, 83, 65);height: 10px;width: 0px;transform: rotate(45deg);transform-origin: left top 0px;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 14px;margin-left: 5px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 19px;width: 1.6em;height: 1.6em;background-color: rgb(255, 9, 26);word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word 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style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 8px;padding-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 2;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母之爱子，则为之计深远，却一不留神就踏进了误区。父母把竞争当着孩子前进需要的垫脚石，却没有想到，它也会成为绊倒孩子的挡路石。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(255, 9, 26);word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">生活中，父母如何避免强化孩子的竞争，导致竞争意识过度强烈呢？</strong></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: 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powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 8px;padding-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 2;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(255, 9, 26);word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">毕淑敏说过：“心理上学上有‘重要他人’的概念，即在个体社会化以及心理人格形成的过程中具有重要影响的具体人物，数据表明排在第一位的仍然是父母。”</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">当父母接纳孩子，无条件去爱孩子，强迫给孩子贴上标签，孩子就会认为自己是好的，不会刻意去改变自己。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母的爱是孩子路上最好的支撑，因为被父母爱，孩子而去发现自己的美好，会更加看重自己。</strong></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;transform: translate3d(6px, 0px, 0px);word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;height: 1.8em;line-height: 1.8em;background-color: rgb(255, 9, 26);color: rgb(255, 255, 255);border-top-left-radius: 5px;border-top-right-radius: 0px;border-bottom-right-radius: 0px;border-bottom-left-radius: 5px;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">培养孩子多元化兴趣</strong></p></section></section></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 0.5em;height: 1.8em;border-left-width: 0.9em;border-left-style: solid;border-left-color: rgb(255, 9, 26);border-bottom-width: 0.9em;border-bottom-style: solid;border-bottom-color: transparent;border-top-width: 0.9em;border-top-style: solid;border-top-color: transparent;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 8px;padding-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 2;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">世上没有两片相同的叶子，也没有两个完全一样的孩子，他们都是独特存在的个体。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所谓尺有所长，寸有所短。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">别人会的，或许你不会。但你擅长的，也许是别人的盲区。在孩子的成长过程中，父母多去培养孩子的兴趣，让他们在不同的区域，找到自己的闪光点。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">多元化的兴趣爱好，调剂孩子的学习生活，不会让他们一直被禁锢在学习中。如今是三百六十行行行出状元，说不定无心插柳的兴趣爱好，会成为以后成荫的主打赚钱好行当。</p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;transform: translate3d(6px, 0px, 0px);word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;height: 1.8em;line-height: 1.8em;background-color: rgb(255, 9, 26);color: rgb(255, 255, 255);border-top-left-radius: 5px;border-top-right-radius: 0px;border-bottom-right-radius: 0px;border-bottom-left-radius: 5px;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母以身作则</strong></p></section></section></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 0.5em;height: 1.8em;border-left-width: 0.9em;border-left-style: solid;border-left-color: rgb(255, 9, 26);border-bottom-width: 0.9em;border-bottom-style: solid;border-bottom-color: transparent;border-top-width: 0.9em;border-top-style: solid;border-top-color: transparent;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 8px;padding-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 2;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">英国教育改革家欧文指出，每个人的性格从来不是并且永远不可能由他自己形成的，而是由“外力”为他形成的。</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(255, 9, 26);word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所谓的外力主要是指家庭教育，父母的耳濡目染对孩子影响很大。</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子性格里的过度竞争意识，离不开父母在生活中的强化别人的好，而忽视了自己的生活也有独特的色彩，自己的孩子也很棒，无形中，让孩子有一种错觉，别人好，就是自己不好，所以就一定要比别人好。</p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: 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!important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 8px;padding-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 2;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;background-color: rgb(160, 160, 160);color: rgb(255, 255, 255);word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">聪明的父母，是让孩子有竞争力，而不是有竞争意识。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 8px;padding-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 2;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我们爱孩子，不是让孩子达到一个什么样的结果，而是让他们轻装上阵，走的更远，却不会忘初心。</strong></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p><br></p><p><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 16px;caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);color: rgb(0, 0, 0);text-align: center;widows: 1;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;font-family: Calibri;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母成长一小步，孩子成长一大步，</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 16px;caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);color: rgb(0, 0, 0);text-align: center;widows: 1;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: Calibri;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我是一切的根源，爱是最好的答案</span></strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: Calibri;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">！</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font color="#000000" face="mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">来源：母亲大学 </span></font><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;">muqindaxue</span></p><p style="max-width: 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