你都不好好说话，为何怪孩子脾气不好？
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text-indent: 2em; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一直以来有不少家长抱怨，说自己的孩子内向，沉默寡言，整天见不到笑脸。但是这些家长从没有想过，孩子的所有表现与家庭教育密不可分。</span></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 17px; line-height: 1.75em; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">下面，小编将例举出几类“不好好说话”的家长类型，希望各位家长有则改之，无则加勉。</span></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-top: -10px; max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: center; 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max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">1.经常吵架的家庭</strong></span></section></section></section><section style="margin-top: -17px; margin-right: -12px; margin-left: 90px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; width: 43px; float: right; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 43px !important;"></span></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">你知道长期生活在争吵中的孩子长大后会是什么样子吗？父母吵架真的只是父母的事吗？</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">很多父母觉得吵架是大人之间的事，但经常吵架的家庭是培养不出幸福的孩子的。</span></section></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">当孩子看到自己最亲密的两个人针锋相对时，会敏感、紧张，觉得最安全的避风港不复存在。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">如若孩子鼓起勇气劝说父母却无济于事，他们就会觉得沮丧、无助、不受重视，甚至会开始悲观地认为活着没有意义。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">而长期生活在不和睦的家庭中，除了攻击性显著增强外，孩子的性格也会发生变化，变得感情冷漠，对他人缺乏信任，为人刻薄，爱挑剔，脾气暴躁，或者内向压抑，容易退缩，对外界事物丧失兴趣。</span></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这样的孩子，容易走入歧途。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; line-height: normal; 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box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="padding: 2px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: center; align-items: center; background-image: -webkit-linear-gradient(left, rgb(249, 209, 86) 50%, rgb(3, 177, 109) 50%); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="padding: 4px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(120, 193, 156); box-shadow: rgb(253, 228, 234) 0px 0px 18px inset; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section data-brushtype="text" style="padding: 6px 1em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: rgb(3, 177, 109); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">2.不懂得好好说话的家庭</strong></span></section></section></section><section style="margin-top: -17px; margin-right: -12px; margin-left: 90px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; width: 43px; float: right; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 43px !important;"></span></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">语言是带情绪的，你所说的每一个字串联起来，有可能给人带去温暖，但也可能带来伤害。</span></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">部分家长几乎不会给予孩子赞扬和肯定。取笑、挖苦、打击，是他们教育子女的惯用手段。</span></section></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这种教育方法有一个专门的名词，叫“打击式教育”。常见的话术如下：</span></section><blockquote style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.498); max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">你看谁谁谁多懂事啊，你呢，有人家十分之一我就烧香了！</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">就你还想干XX，算了吧。我看你就是三分钟热度。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这么简单的事情你都做不好，你还有什么用，简直比猪还蠢。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">……</span></section></blockquote><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这声声打击的背后，藏着多少人年少时暗暗流下的泪。</span></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">有句话说得很好：来自父母的打击，所造成的伤害效果不止是当下，它贯穿岁月，像一根针一样深扎在子女的心头。</span></section></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; 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margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="padding: 2px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: center; align-items: center; background-image: -webkit-linear-gradient(left, rgb(249, 209, 86) 50%, rgb(3, 177, 109) 50%); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="padding: 4px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(120, 193, 156); box-shadow: rgb(253, 228, 234) 0px 0px 18px inset; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section data-brushtype="text" style="padding: 6px 1em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: rgb(3, 177, 109); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">3.妻子长期不被尊重的家庭</strong></span></section></section></section><section style="margin-top: -17px; margin-right: -12px; margin-left: 90px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; width: 43px; float: right; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 43px !important;"></span></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在一个家庭里，夫妻关系永远大于一切关系，包括亲子关系。</span></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">良好夫妻关系的基础是尊重，所以，丈夫是否尊重妻子，培养出来的孩子差别将会很大。</span></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">没有好的夫妻关系，也别想拥有好的亲子关系。这几乎是铁的定律。</span></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">之前我有一个邻居，丈夫经常当着孩子的面骂妻子，结果有时候因为一点小事，孩子竟然用爸爸的口吻骂妈妈。</span></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">结果他家这孩子，成了我们小区出了名的混混，爱打架，目中无人，现在连他爸都管不了……</span></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">还有我堂妹她老公，平时也动不动就骂骂咧咧的。据我堂妹说，她每次去婆家，都会看到她公公对她婆婆大吼大叫，那场景，像极了她老公对她。</span></section></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这些，不都是我们经常说的，原生家庭对孩子的影响吗？而且研究发现：</span></section><blockquote style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.498); max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">那些丈夫经常呵斥辱骂妻子的，他们的孩子在成人后大多有着糟糕的人际关系，性格孤僻冷漠。<br style="max-width: 100%; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">那些丈夫殴打妻子的，他们的孩子在学校期间就表现得出口成脏，爱打群架。</span></section></blockquote><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">从上面的例子不难看出，当妻子在家里没有地位时，孩子的眼里也没有妈妈的形象，妈妈对孩子的教育也自然不会有效果。</span></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">当孩子犯错时，妈妈对他任何的说教，都会被孩子忽视，甚至轻视。久而久之，孩子就会谁的话也不听了。</span></section></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 384px !important;"></span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: normal; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; cursor: text; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; outline: none 0px !important; box-sizing: border-box !important;">所有幸福的孩子都是相似的。家庭是母亲的世界，父亲的王国，儿童的乐园。这就是一个幸福家庭应有的模样。</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p><br></p><p><br></p><br>转载声明：本文转载自「母亲大学」，搜索「muqindaxue」即可关注，[<a target="_blank" href="https://mp.weixin.qq.com/s/6Un9XwZA_U3W5Gqgot3c9w">阅读原文</a>]。</div><p></p>
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