每5个孩子就有1个抑郁倾向：孩子的心理健康，再不关注就晚了！
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><p data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin-bottom: 25px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;">来源：</span><span style="font-family: Tahoma, Helvetica, SimSun, sans-serif;">「新东方家庭教育」 </span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;">作者：主创团</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;">·筱恬</span></p><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">最近，我国第一部全方位解读抑郁的系列纪录片《我们如何对抗抑郁》，在央视纪录频道首播。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(243, 152, 1); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">其中，第一集“少年已知愁滋味”将镜头对准了我们的孩子。青少年这个受抑郁症影响最大的群体之一，再次被大众的视线所聚焦。 </span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">片中，高中女生钟华的经历让人尤其难忘。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">她来自一个典型的中国式家庭，生活小康，父母望子成龙，对女儿给予了极大的期望。尤其是她的母亲，总要求她成绩拔尖。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">但不幸的是，钟华的心理逐渐出现了问题。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">因为抑郁症的折磨，她的状态变得非常糟糕。面对镜头，她如此形容自己当时的情况：</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“学校一天一共8节课，我都会躺在桌子上8节课。回家之后就躺在床上，有的时候哭，有的时候不哭，然后一躺躺5个小时。洗澡或者洗脸刷牙，然后晚上再接着继续失眠。这个状态真的很消耗我。”</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">病情最严重的时候，她的脑海中一片混沌，唯一的念头就是寻死。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;width: 661px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">饱受煎熬的钟华为了自救，决定向父母求助。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(243, 152, 1); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">其实，对于自己的这个选择，她心里并没有底。因为她并不知道父母会对此做出怎样的反应。 </span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">但庆幸的是，父母尽管内心震惊无比，却依然用最大的耐心和爱意接纳了这一切。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">母亲平静地让她休学，用这段时间好好养一下。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">而家里原先紧绷的气氛，也逐渐松弛下来。父母不再强迫她去做什么，家庭成员的关系变得更加和谐。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">父母的举动，在无意中挽救了钟华的生命。直到她痊愈后才透露，她曾决定，如果父母得知她有抑郁症后，像其他家长那样责备自己是矫情，那么她就会从窗户上跳下去。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;width: 661px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">但恰恰是他们的理解与支持，让她在人生最黑暗的时刻，选择了放弃自杀，继续好好活下去。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">其实，钟华的例子并非个例。《中国国民心理健康发展报告（2019~2020）》的数据显示：“2020年，我国青少年的平均抑郁检出率为24.6%，其中轻度抑郁检出率为17.2%，重度抑郁为7.4%。”</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(243, 152, 1); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这意味着，每5个孩子中就有1个被抑郁所困扰，稍不留意就会发展成疾病。 </span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">可见，我们孩子的内心状况，并没有众人以为的那么乐观而阳光。青少年心理健康问题，亟待引起我们的高度重视！</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 25px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">就在近日，教育部明确规定：“将抑郁症筛查纳入学生健康体检内容，建立学生心理健康档案，评估学生心理健康状况，对测评结果异常的学生要给予重点关注。”</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">对此，中国教育科学研究院的专家指出，导致孩子抑郁症的原因，除极少部分由于遗传外，大部分来自于家校社各方面的外部因素。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; padding-right: 0.5em; padding-left: 0.5em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-shadow: rgb(180, 180, 180) 0em 0em 0.5em 0px;width: 644px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">而这其中，</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(243, 152, 1); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">家庭教育更是一个很主要的诱因。</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子的许多心理问题，病源都在父母身上。 </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">事实上，像钟华这样的孩子实属幸运，因为在她人生的至暗时刻，父母为她撑起了一片包容的天空。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">但，在我们身边仍有太多的孩子，不被理解，无法倾诉；他们内心的痛苦越放越大，最终把自己活成了孤岛。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">前段时间，一个14岁女孩写的遗书曝光。平静的字眼中，却是痛彻心骨的绝望，看得叫人心都碎了！</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;width: 661px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;width: 661px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;width: 661px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“你们爱的不是我，是冲进班级前十的我，是排名年级前二十的我，是考到满分的我。”</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">透过女孩怨念的文字，我们分明看到了这样一个家庭——</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一直以来，女孩的父母始终把成绩看得特别重。他们对女儿极尽严苛，倘若她达不到他们心目中完美女儿的标准，就会用最肮脏的话辱骂她，用各种皮带和电线毒打她，让她只穿着拖鞋站在屋外向外人示众。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">长此以往，这个女孩终于决绝地走上了绝路，并在遗书中发出了生命最后的呐喊：</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“毁掉一个人很简单，只需要毁了她的童年！”</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">法国心理学家苏珊福沃德在《原生家庭：如何修补自己的性格缺陷》这本书里，提出了一个概念叫做“有毒的父母”，指的是父母的负面行为模式持续存在，始终支配着子女的生活，让孩子遭受的痛苦随着成长不断加深。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">有太多的时候，我们何尝不是这样杀伤力十足的有毒父母呢？</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">总是把压力和焦虑有意无意地传递给孩子；</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -applesystem, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">总是忍不住用恶毒的语言贬低打击孩子、甚至施以暴力；</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">忽略了孩子的情绪状态，对他们过度期待、严苛要求……</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这些行为，就像化学毒素一样蔓延至孩子的整个身心；他们的内心，也正是在我们的这种情感伤害之下，逐渐变得千疮百孔。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><br><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">不久前，上海杨浦区有一个女生，因为学业压力过大，在家服下了大量安眠药试图轻生。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">当警方接到女孩网友的报警电话上门了解情况时，孩子父母却根本不相信。他们坚称女儿早已睡下，甚至还不耐烦地抱怨警察在乱说。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;width: 661px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在民警的强烈要求下，父母查看了家里安眠药的数量，这才惊慌地发现女儿已经服下了不少。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">最终，女孩因为及时治疗，平安得救。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这真是件庆幸的事，因为多亏警方和网友行动迅速，才救下女孩一命。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">但这也是件令人后怕的事。当这个孩子出现异常行为时，这对心大的家长竟毫无觉察，差点就酿成了悲剧！</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">正如一位网友的高赞评论：</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“做父母的多关注下孩子的心理健康吧！”</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; padding-right: 0.5em; padding-left: 0.5em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-shadow: rgb(180, 180, 180) 0em 0em 0.5em 0px;width: 644px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">为人父母，我们都希望拥有一个心智成熟、内心强大的孩子。因为唯有健康的心理状态，才能抵御外在的一切磨难与挫折。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">但现实往往事与愿违。当发现我们的孩子不对劲时，你的反应又会是什么呢？</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">难以置信又束手无策？</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">拒绝接受并不以为然？</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">亦或是倾尽全力，却依然有心无力？</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">教育家蒙台梭利曾说：</span><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“儿童心灵上的许多烙印，都是成人无意间烙下的。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">”</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(243, 152, 1); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">事实上，父母的态度对孩子的影响是不可磨灭的。可能正是我们无意中的一句话、一个眼神，最终挽救了孩子，又或者把他们推向了深渊。 </span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">前段时间，《2021年中国家庭教育白皮书》重磅发布，共有四千多位家长参与了调查。结果显示，有57.77%的家长认为，目前教育的最大难题是“缺乏有效的方法，自己是在凭感觉教育孩子。” </span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;width: 661px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">可见，很多时候，我们大人本身教育水平的局限性，恰恰是阻碍孩子心理健康发展的主要因素。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">那么，该如何培养孩子强大的内心？</span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">当发现孩子情绪出现偏差时，该如何正确应对？</span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在孩子的心“生病”时，该如何有效疗伤？</span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在孩子迷失方向的时候，又该如何帮助他们走出迷雾、重获快乐，成长为更好的自己？</span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">……</span></strong></section><br>转载声明：本文转载自「新东方家庭教育」，搜索「xdfjtjy」即可关注，[<a target="_blank" href="https://mp.weixin.qq.com/s/qS9KhUXl7o6wbfgmth8KRw">阅读原文</a>]。</div><div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><br></div><div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0px; text-align: justify; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.94); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0.5px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-size: 13px;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">如果你有情绪困扰等问题，可以来“儿童心理云平台”给自己预约一次“</span><a href="https://www.aixin114.net/app/account/login?returnUrl=https%3a%2f%2fwww.aixin114.net%2fapp%2fmeasuring%2findex" style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-decoration-line: none; max-width: 100%; background: rgb(92, 173, 51); font-size: 18px; padding: 5px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">心理体检</a><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">”吧：</span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; 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