父母的脾气，影响着孩子处理情绪的方式
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><p style="text-align: center; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); visibility: visible;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0px; visibility: visible;">面对孩子闹情绪，爸妈们通常会用好玩好吃的来哄，甚至采取吓唬的手段。但是，</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这样往往会加剧孩子的情绪化</strong></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0px; visibility: visible;">。</span><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); visibility: visible;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0px; visibility: visible;">实际上，</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;">是人就有喜怒哀乐，孩子情绪化是正常现象</strong></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0px; visibility: visible;">。让孩子学会管理自己的情绪，才是最根本的解决方法。</span></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); visibility: visible;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; visibility: visible;">情绪管理是门大学问，父母需要帮助孩子舒缓自己的情绪，感知自己的内心，并且学会用适宜的方式表达自己的感受。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0px; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;">良好的情绪管理能力，无论对于孩子还是大人，都是一项需要“毕生修炼”的技能。</span></strong></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); visibility: visible;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(214, 168, 65); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 150px !important;"></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></strong></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(214, 168, 65); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;">与心爱的事物分手</span></strong></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;">英文谚语说：“FromAshes,ToAshes。”(“空手来，空手去。”)指的是人出生时手无一物，死时也是尽舍而去。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;">但是从小时候开始，我们便被教导怎样为自己争取更多的东西，于是占有欲成为人类典型心态的一部分。</strong></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;">占有多少和占有什么往往被当作决定一个人成功程度的指标。</span></strong></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 100%;height: auto;"></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;">事实上，世界上任何事与物，不可能永恒不变。一段感情、一件心爱之物、身边的人，总有分离或者终结的一天。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;">对于因放弃或结束本有的事物而引起的情绪，一般人绝少做过思考，也几乎没有机会学习，故此不知怎样处理。一些人甚至会因为一个亲人的逝世，或者某件事情的中断而影响到终生的成就、性格和生活素质。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(214, 168, 65); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">其实，在孩子很小的时候便可以进行这种处理情绪的教育。</span></strong></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">例如：孩子心爱的玩具，因为意外或者其他原因被摔破或弄坏了，孩子往往会伤心哭泣，这时便是进行这类教育的最好机会。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子的价值观与成人的不同，尤其是几岁大的小孩子，他们对时间与金钱的价值没有任何意识，所以对他们心爱的东西的感情和钟爱，不会受金钱价值大小的影响，一件花十元钱买回来的玩具，可能是孩子最心爱的，一旦摔破了，他的悲伤不亚于一个成年人一下子失去了价值数百万元的东西时的感受。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(214, 168, 65); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">家长往往不明白这一点而对哭闹的孩子说：“别为这么不值钱的一点小东西哭了，明天再买一件给你。”</strong></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(214, 168, 65); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这样的言语无法令孩子感到家长能够了解他们内心的苦痛。</span></strong></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子因摔坏价值十元的玩具而伤感，便说明那件玩具的价值对孩子来说是巨大的。家长应该肯定他的情绪，尊重和接受孩子的情绪，并且可以用以下类似的话给孩子肯定的感觉：</span><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“你这样伤心，一定是因为你很喜爱这件玩具。来，坐在我身边，告诉我你现在内心的感受。”</span></strong></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在引导孩子说出他内心的情绪感受后，家长便可以向孩子解释，使孩子明白以下的道理：</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">1.世界上所有美好的事物，都有别离的一天。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">2.与那些美好的事物在一起的时候，应该好好地对待它，同时也要好好地享受它带给自己的好处，珍惜与它在一起时的乐趣。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">3.在事物离去后，把那段回忆好好保存起来，并且总结和体会个中的意义，以帮助自己建立更快乐成功的未来。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">例如，孩子非常喜爱的一件衣服，但因为人长大了，衣服已经过于瘦小，穿不进去了。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这时应引导孩子这样思考：这件衣服陪伴你两年了，这两年里它不单给了你温暖和保护，而且还让你得到了很多人的欣赏和夸奖，因为它穿在你身上特别合适、特别漂亮。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这件衣服用最好的方式陪伴你成长，因为有了它，你这两年才多了快乐和满足。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">可是，你需要继续成长，而它不能成长变大，所以，它能够为你做的已经做完了。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">你今天把它穿在身上，得到的已经不是别人的欣赏和夸奖，而是嘲笑和怀疑了。<br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他们笑你穿的衣服不合身，怀疑你是否愿意继续长大。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">所以，要跟它分手的时间已经到了，让我们为它做个安排，让它能够帮助另一个有需要的孩子长大，继续被欣赏、被宠爱。你可以对它为你所做的表示感谢，告诉它你把它放在心里，使它继续在你的心里帮助你长大，每次回忆它你都很开心。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">告诉它我们为它做了安排，让它得到另一个孩子的爱护。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">若要分手的是心爱的宠物，或上述的衣服因为破烂不能送人，可以安排用盒子把它装好，帮助孩子写一封告别信，做个类似上述的告别仪式，找一个隐蔽地点埋了，也可以安排火化之类的方式。<br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(214, 168, 65); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 186px !important;"></span></span></strong></span></strong></span></strong></span></strong></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(214, 168, 65); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">化解与他人之间的冲突</span></strong></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">世上没有两个人是完全一样的，因此没有两个人对同一件事物的看法会一样。如果有人坚持要对方接受自己的看法，冲突便会出现。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">有些人经常与他人发生冲突，令别人不想与他接近。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">但是冲突本身未必不好，世界上很多的进步、人与人之间的深入了解，往往都是因为看法不一致引起冲突才带来的。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">因此，不顾一切地避免冲突，往往只会得到负面效果，也不是一个具有完整性格的人所应有的态度。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">反之，敢于面对冲突，进而掌握妥善处理冲突的技巧，才能使一个人更成功和开心，才会进一步得到别人的敬重。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这种态度及能力，在孩子很小的时候便可加以教导，而最佳的时机莫过于在家长之间发生冲突的时候。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">当家长之间因某些小事而意见不合，导致关系紧张时，一般家长往往企图在孩子面前表现得若无其事。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">其实，孩子十分聪明，他们内心所感受到的远比家长意识到的多，只是孩子见到家长表现出的态度，觉得不应将事情揭穿，所以就故意装作若无其事。</strong></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">其实这个时候，孩子的内心往往有彷徨无助的感觉，感到忧虑、担心，并因此很容易对所发生的问题做出错误判断，进而建立妨碍性的信念及行为准则，使他日后面对冲突时不能做到最有效的处理。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">例如，避免面对事情真实的一面，拼命掩饰自觉的不恰当的行为或感受，在出现冲突或被质问时做出使情况变得更坏的反应。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">因此，当家长之间有轻微冲突出现时，不必在孩子面前回避冲突，只要遵守以下的原则及做法，孩子就会有很多的得益：</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">1. 说明双方产生意见的正面动机。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">例如：“我认为应该这样做，因为这能让全家人多一点时间休息。”<br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">2. 在冲突中避免人身攻击及使用不适当的言辞或行为。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">例如：“你这个人真没良心！”<br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">3. 尊重家庭成员之间的关系与信任。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">例如：“我相信你这样做是为了大家好。”<br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">4. 表现出妥善解决事情的诚意。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">例如：“我的确认为有比这样更好，而且你我都可以接受的方法。”</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">5. 在冲突之后双方达成妥协或一致意见时，在孩子面前用行动表现冲突的结束。双方可以用语言或行动对结果表示满意。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">例如：说多谢对方的让步，握手、拉手或者拥抱，改变语气、面露笑容等。<br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(214, 168, 65); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 152px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></strong></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(214, 168, 65); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">承担责任</span><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></strong></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子在成长过程中，若得不到足够的肯定、鼓励和支持，便不能充分地培养出内心的自我价值。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">成长后，当他对自己的能力和价值认识不够清楚时，便会害怕被别人察觉自己对某些知识的不足，或不肯承认自己的错误。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这样的人，在群体中难以受人敬重；在工作中的表现不会突出；在自己的人生中，也会有很多的担心、无奈，并往往不能面对现实。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">家长帮助孩子培养出足够的自我价值，除了鼓励孩子拓展自己的想法和敢于冒险尝试、对孩子做得好的事予以嘉许之外，还可以引导孩子勇于承担责任。家长更应以身作则，让孩子感受到承担责任是正确的做法。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">例如：</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">家长偶然说错了一句话，当家长察觉时便应坦然地说：“对不起，我刚才说错了。”又假若家长无意中做了一件伤害孩子的事，当察觉时，家长可以诚恳地、带着歉意地说：“对不起，刚才无意中伤害了你。”</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">诚恳及带着歉意的态度才是承担责任的真正表示，道歉的言语只不过是一种配合。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">只说出道歉的话而没有那份诚意及抱歉的表情，孩子会觉得家长虚伪而不能改善心里的感受。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">假使他学会同样的行为，他日与同辈相处时，便不能得到别人的尊重和真诚相待了。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子看到家长勇于承担责任，那么当他自己犯了同样的言行错误时，便会模仿家长做出同样的行为。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(214, 168, 65); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一旦形成习惯，孩子会明白：承认错误是生活中正常而且有用的行为，因为这样做更会得到别人的尊敬和谅解，孩子会更勇于突破、发挥自身能力和提升自己。</strong></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-size: 15px;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">那些父母情绪平和的孩子，脸上笑容更多，幸福感更强，抗挫折能力更好，有礼貌有教养，待人宽容平和不计较。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-size: 15px;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-size: 15px;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">而那些父母情绪不稳定、脾气暴躁，动辄大吼大叫的孩子，相比同龄孩子，行事会更极端，性格更加孤僻，对世界也缺乏一种安全感，无法放开。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-size: 15px;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-size: 15px;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">父母的情绪，在不知不觉中，早已成为了孩子身上最深的烙印。</strong></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-size: 15px;"><br></p><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="101099" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-size: 16px; 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