培养一个不磨蹭的孩子，你要学会用这4个心理学法则，效果立竿见影
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transform: rotate(45deg); visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin: 15px 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; line-height: 24px; letter-spacing: 1px; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin: 15px 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; line-height: 24px; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="margin: 15px 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(191, 196, 204); line-height: 24px; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;">面对孩子的磨蹭，最好的方法不是催催催，而是用这4个心理法则，去引导和影响孩子。</strong></p></section></section><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin-left: auto; 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margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin-top: 5px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">如果做个排行榜，投票选出能把家长逼疯的教育问题，我想“孩子太磨蹭”一定能进入前三。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">儿子今年上三年级，日常的磨蹭拖延简直让人分分钟崩溃。</span></section><blockquote data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="153" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5); max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); box-sizing: border-box !important;">每天起床，三催四请，明明眼睛都睁开了，就是嫌困，总想再睡过去，不吼上几嗓子，根本起不来。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); box-sizing: border-box !important;">带他外出，我都要忍住怒火，看着他以0.5倍速收拾东西、穿衣服、穿鞋子，好不容易一切就绪，他一看到摆在玄关的奥特曼，就忍不住拿起来玩了......</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.5px; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); box-sizing: border-box !important;">尤其是写作业，如果说平时还能保持母慈子孝，那一到写作业真的是各种鸡飞狗跳。</span></strong></span></p></section></section></blockquote><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">回想过去的日子，N+1次因为他太过磨蹭冲他大吼大叫，真是心力交瘁。<br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">结果效果还不好，催多了，儿子反倒成了老油条，根本不为所动。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">为了解决他的拖拉磨蹭，我不得不开始听专家课，看育儿书。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">没想到，还真被我发现教育上的问题。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这半年的时间里，我反复推敲，认真学习，并将所学付诸实践。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">陪伴儿子的过程中，看到他身上的改变，我就知道，这归功于所学到的四个心理学效应。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235) !important;background-size: 22px !important;background-position: center center !important;background-repeat: no-repeat !important;height: auto;width: 100%;"></span></section><p style="text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 25px;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 17px; color: rgb(72, 68, 133); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“超限效应”</strong><br></span></p><p style="margin-top: 5px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(72, 68, 133); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">你的催促，加剧了孩子的逆反心理</strong></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(5, 57, 81); box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></strong></span></p><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">很多父母都会发现：</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子动作慢、拖拉，光靠催改变不了什么，甚至越催，孩子就越慢。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">有一次，儿子学校布置了制作灯笼的手工作业，要求家长陪同。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">所有材料都备好了放在桌上，他非要找个一次性桌布垫着，找了半天没找着，又说得备好抹布。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一来二去，十几分钟过去了。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">当时我着急洗菜做饭，便催他快点过来动手。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">可他屁股刚一坐，又跑去厨房洗水果吃，说肚子饿了，不吃点东西干不动。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">看着时间一点点被他浪费掉，我心里那股无名火瞬间爆发出来，忍不住对着他大吼了一顿。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">最后，那次作业，明明半小时就可以完成的，他非得搞到晚上11点。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">耗时久，完成的质量差不说，母子关系也陷入僵局。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">坦白说，我一度怀疑儿子的理解能力有问题，为什么我都那样催了，他还能不为所动。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">后来看到心理专家胡慎之的一段话：</span></section><blockquote data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="125" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5); max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); box-sizing: border-box !important;">妈妈越催促，孩子动作越慢，系鞋带、吃饭、写字，都越来越慢。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); box-sizing: border-box !important;">这其实是孩子对妈妈的攻击，或者说，是孩子针对妈妈对待自己的方式做出的反击。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子用这种不好不坏的状态证明父母的失败，有点损人不利己。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); box-sizing: border-box !important;">可是人的无意识中有这种需要，这是攻击的需要，也是对愤怒的表达。</span></strong></span></p></section></section></blockquote><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">恍然大悟，这就跟心理学上的“</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">超限效应</strong></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">”一个道理。</span><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我们的孩子，如果受到外界的刺激过多、过强，或作用时间过久，很容易产生极不耐烦或逆反的心理。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">甚至会陷入一个死循环：</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">催——不动——再催——慢慢动——三催四请——更不愿意动了。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">想想也是。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">换做是我，如果别人老是不停催催催，也会觉得很讨厌，甚至故意放慢速度，让别人着急。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">所以，想改变孩子的磨蹭，父母管住自己的嘴巴很重要。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">比如，当我决定控制住自己，不去催他，一开始儿子依旧磨蹭。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">但过了半小时，他看了看时钟，意识到作业还没做，竟罕见地拿出练习册，乖乖坐在书桌上写。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">原来，有些时候无声真的胜有声。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(72, 68, 133); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">放下催促唠叨，让孩子做主，既能让他为自己负责，还能收获成长的惊喜，何乐而不为？</strong></span></section><p style="text-align: center;margin-top: 25px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 25px;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 17px; color: rgb(72, 68, 133); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“定位速效实验”</strong><br></span></p><p style="margin-top: 5px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(72, 68, 133); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">目标精细化，提高孩子的效率</strong></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(5, 57, 81); box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></strong></span></p><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">前几天在群里，看到一位妈妈发来的求助语音：</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.5px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><blockquote data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="44" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5); max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); box-sizing: border-box !important;">“我真的是要疯了，这都十点多了，他作业还没写完，其他小朋友都已经睡觉了，就他磨磨蹭蹭。”</span></strong></span></p></section></blockquote><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 25px;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-shadow: rgb(210, 210, 210) 0em 0em 0.5em 0px;font-size: 17px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">听完百感交集。<br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">现在的孩子，作业真不是一般的多。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">语文、数学、英语、体育......啥都要打卡，啥都要过一遍。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">就像儿子每次一回到家，作业清单一打开，各科各类细碎的安排。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">别说他看了头晕，就连我，也一时不知从何入手。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">有的时候，不是孩子喜欢磨蹭，而是目标太多太杂了，孩子不知道从哪里开始。</span></strong></span></section><p style="text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 25px;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">心理学家罗西和亨利就做过一个实验，证明了这种现象：</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">参与实验的学生被分为3组，分别前往10公里外的村庄。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">第一组</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">的学生，由于不知道村庄在哪里，跟着向导走不到两三公里，就开始叫苦。</span></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">走了一半，抱怨的学生越来越多，负面情绪迅速蔓延。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">到最后，整个队伍情绪低落，溃不成军。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">第二组</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">的学生，事先知道目的地在10公里外。</span></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">只是走的途中没有任何路标，他们只是跟着向导走，根本不知道走到哪里，还有多久。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">因此也有人开始抱怨，行走的速度越来越慢。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">第三组</span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">的学生，情况截然不同。</span></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他们不仅知道目的地在哪里，还能看到路牌，心中有数，走得也很顺利，最终全员完成任务。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这就是心理学上有名的“</span><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">定位速效实验</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">”。</span></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">由此可见，孩子的磨蹭拖拉，跟目标不明确、过程漫长有关。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">于是我在跟儿子商量过后，针对儿子的学习做了调整：</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">每天先了解他要完成哪些作业，帮他将作业分解成一个个的小目标，然后估算每个目标大概需要的时间，让他做到心里有数。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">比如前半小时做语文，完成后休息放松十分钟，吃点东西或聊下天，再花半小时练习英语，继续放松十分钟……</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">以此类推，当每一个短期目标完成时，我都会及时给到反馈。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这么做，不仅消除了一次性完成所有作业的紧张感和压力感，还预留了时间让儿子放松一下，调整状态重新投入学习。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">几个月下来，儿子每次做作业前都会自己做好规划，效率也慢慢提高了起来。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(72, 68, 133);"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">当孩子一次又一次拿下小目标时，也是他收获成就感，重拾信心的高光时刻。</span></strong></span><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(5, 57, 81); box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></strong></section><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 578px;visibility: visible !important;height: 82px;"></span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 17px; color: rgb(72, 68, 133); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“蔡格尼克效应”</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 5px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 17px; color: rgb(72, 68, 133); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">降低任务的难度，减少孩子的心理负担</span></strong></span></p><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">《超级育儿师》里，有一个叫龙威的12岁男孩。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">考试考27分，玩游戏时精神抖擞，做作业时哈欠连连，无从下手。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">坐在书桌前，要么发呆、要么玩笔，到头来，作业经常交不上去。<br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">看到他在妈妈的逼问下，双手无处安放的紧张，背不出“六乘以六等于多少”的窘迫，不禁替他捏一把冷汗。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 677px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">按道理，像他这么大的孩子，不至于故意拖着不写作业，挨妈妈一顿打骂。<br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">但从他的紧张、焦虑可以看出，迟迟完不成作业的关键在于，</span><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">学习对他而言很难。</span></strong></span><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></strong></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 677px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">很多时候，明明是迫在眉睫要完成的事情，孩子就是催也催不动。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">不要一味判定孩子喜欢磨蹭，这极有可能跟要做的事情难度大有关。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">蔡格尼克效应</strong></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">”也指出了这一点。</span></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">人们对尚未处理完的任务，会比已处理完成的任务印象深刻很多。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">即是说，那些因为难度高暂时无法完成的事情，会成为孩子心里不可忽视的疙瘩。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">表面上看，他东弄弄西搞搞，不在意是否能及时完成；</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">事实上，当他选择拖延时，身心并不轻松，反倒会因“心有牵挂”而烦躁、备受煎熬。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(72, 68, 133);"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">想要快速做完事情，提高效率，重点在于减轻孩子的心理负担，让他拥有一个轻松舒适的状态。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">明白这点之后，我一直在思考，怎么给儿子一个良好的学习状态呢？</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我的做法是，让他先从简单容易的事情做起。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">比如所有的作业中，他背英语单词背得比较快，就让他先完成这项作业；</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一般完成1、2项简单的作业后，他就会明显找到成就感，逐渐放松下来，不像刚开始那样面露难色了。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">等他心情放松了，最后再做数学或其他难度较高的学科主业，相对更专注和快速些了。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这样的方法持续大概两个月，我惊喜地发现：</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">儿子比以前更自信，就算要当天要完成的作业比较多，他也不担心。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">看他每天顺利完成一个一个挑战，浑身散发出的满足感，我便知道，每一个孩子都是有潜力的，只有用对方法，激发他进步的渴望，再难的事，他都愿意花时间精力做下去。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他时常磨蹭的问题，也就迎刃而解了。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 677px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></section><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 578px;visibility: visible !important;height: 82px;"></span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(72, 68, 133); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“自然惩罚法则”</strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 5px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(72, 68, 133); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">化主动为被动，让孩子自己承担后果</strong></span></p><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">教育专家尹建莉在书中讲过这样一个例子：<br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一位生意做得很好的妈妈，却苦于无法引导孩子好好写作业。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">她掏心掏肺，几乎天天监督孩子写作业，可孩子却对此深恶痛疾，常常完不成，成绩一直是班里倒数。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">直到一次偶然的机会，尹建莉听到妈妈催孩子写作业的话，瞬间明白了：</span></section><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="40" data-source-title=""><section class="js_blockquote_digest"><p style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);letter-spacing: 1px;"><strong>“你已经欠数学老师三次作业了，还欠着英语老师两次作业，今天再不写，欠得更多了！”</strong></span></p></section></blockquote><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">提醒孩子写快点，这倒没什么问题。</span><br></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">但妈妈这样的方式和语气，只会让孩子觉得：</span><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">作业是老师的，不是我的。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">而且，孩子还会觉得：我完不完成没关系，反正有妈妈会催我，不怕。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">之前，我也踏进过类似的误区。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">比如儿子上学要迟到了，我干脆帮他整理好书包，回过头再说他，他却一脸“理所应当”的嘚瑟样，气得真想打他。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">自从学习了“自然惩罚法则”之后，我决定学会放手。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">有次，到了睡觉时间，儿子仍沉浸在玩乐高的专注中，英语作业一个字都没动。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我也不催他，简单提醒他“该睡觉了”就转身回屋。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">第二天，他因为没有写作业被老师狠狠批评了一顿，回家第一件事就是写作业，不敢再玩了。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">出门上学也是，我会提前告诉他，如果7点还没准备好，我就没办法送他上学，到时候他只能让奶奶带他去坐公交车，这样就很容易迟到。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">刚开始，他不为所动，依旧磨磨蹭蹭，我也没再催，到点简单跟奶奶交代几句后，我就挥手说拜拜了。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">那天，儿子果然迟到了，被学校记迟到后，动作明显变快了，竟然开始催着我出门上学。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">有句谚语这么说：智慧来自经验，而经验来自失策。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(72, 68, 133);"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">自然惩罚法则，就是让孩子亲身体验磨蹭的后果，为此付出代价，吸取教训。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(72, 68, 133);"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">从而不断认识到自己的责任，调整自己的节奏，掌握正确的做法，不断自觉快速起来。</span></strong></span><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; 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margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">看着儿子近一年的成长，我愈发觉得：<br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(72, 68, 133);"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子并不是天生的慢性子，他也不是故意要拖延时间，拖沓磨蹭。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">只是有时候，他跟不上大人的步伐而已。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">就像那句话说的，</span><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(72, 68, 133);"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">教育孩子，就像牵着一只蜗牛在散步。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">所以，别急，给他多一点点时间，多一点点关爱。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">要相信，他已经用最大的速度前行，父母能做的，就是用坚定不移的爱接纳他，在前面耐心引导他，让他找到自己的节奏。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; 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