gongyi020 发表于 2022-4-6 22:01:54

心理| 哭出来的是悲伤,哭不出来的是抑郁

<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><p data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io" style="text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(234, 34, 0); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> 01</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); background-color: rgb(234, 34, 0); visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(234, 34, 0); text-align: left; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">116万颗,孤独的避雷针</font></span></strong></p><p line="LGQY" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">2003年愚人节,张国荣在选择跟这个世界告别,仿佛老天跟所有人开了个玩笑。而一封50余字的遗书,透露出了他生前的痛苦:</font></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br></font></p><section data-style-type="6" data-tools="新媒体排版" data-id="2894" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;<a href=" https:="" mmbiz.qpic.cn="" mmbiz_png="" nbk1cdbtciatuaakscdsujupch4kapj3bcial9prb0mu7om8aia4jyqyrtndl9rvwvlxbekdb86q4jrvq2euehjzg="" 640?wx_fmt="png&quot;&quot;" target="_blank"><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; padding: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">(沮丧、抑郁),多谢各位朋友,多谢麦列菲菲教授。一年来很辛苦,不能再忍受,多谢唐先生,多谢家人,多谢肥姐。我一生没做坏事,为何这样?”</font></span></p></section></section><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">9年后的2012年,一个叫走饭的微博用户,发完她最后一条微博后,告别了这个世界,“我有抑郁症,所以就去死一死,没什么重要的原因,大家不必在意我的离开。拜拜啦。”</font></span></strong></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">这条微博下留言近百万,几年前曾经有人说,“微博成了抑郁者的树洞,58万条留言者孤独得像避雷针”。而到现在,避雷针已经有116万,每天还在以千为单位增加。这一百多万的数字背后,是一个个真实的人,他们是彼此在黑暗中的光亮,链接在一起的孤岛。</font></span></p><p line="4HYT" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">然而从网络中抽离,现实生活中,这样的避雷针远不止116万。</font></span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">据世界卫生组织统计,大概16%的人在一生的某一阶段会受到抑郁的困扰,在中国,平均每十几个人里面就有一个人抑郁。还有更多的人,即使算不上抑郁症,也正在抑郁边缘徘徊。</font></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">但即使生活已经被抑郁的阴影笼罩,我们仍然选择带上微笑的面具,<span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">让自己看起来活得很好。</span></font></span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(234, 34, 0); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;"> 02</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(234, 34, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></font></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; color: rgb(234, 34, 0); text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">“我可以笑得很灿烂,我只是不快乐。”</font></span></strong></p><p line="fwsE" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">薛之谦曾经在一档节目中,承认自己有抑郁倾向:“我心理是不健康的,要不然我就写不出这些情歌,要不然我就不会抑郁。”很多人觉得诧异,一个用生命在搞笑的人,怎么可能抑郁?</font></span></p><p line="nL57" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">微博上的一段话,说出了很多人的心声:</font></span></strong></span></p><section data-style-type="6" data-tools="新媒体排版" data-id="2894" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;<a href=" https:="" mmbiz.qpic.cn="" mmbiz_png="" nbk1cdbtciatuaakscdsujupch4kapj3bcial9prb0mu7om8aia4jyqyrtndl9rvwvlxbekdb86q4jrvq2euehjzg="" 640?wx_fmt="png&quot;&quot;" target="_blank"><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; padding: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">“现代人的崩溃是一种默不作声的崩溃。看起来很正常,会说笑、会打闹、会社交,表面平静,实际上心里的糟心事已经积累到一定程度了。不会摔门砸东西,不会流眼泪或歇斯底里。但可能某一秒突然就积累到极致了,也不说话,也不真的崩溃,也不太想活,也不敢去死。”</font></span></p></section></section><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">我们今天的社会,太过崇尚正能量,“不快乐”很多时候是不被允许的。但成年人的世界,哪有那么多的岁月静好。你所看到那些,再平常不过的嬉笑打闹、笑容满面,也许是面前这个人用了很大力气,才努力做到。</font></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">我们觉得,只有“快乐”的自己,别人才会喜欢,而“抑郁”的自己,是不好的,不能被别人喜爱的,因此当情绪来袭,我们常常习惯性地捂住自己的嘴巴。</font></span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">而压抑住所有的不开心,往往推着我们陷入更深的抑郁黑暗中。</font></span></strong></span></p><p line="6zGo" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(234, 34, 0); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;"> 03</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(234, 34, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></font></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; color: rgb(234, 34, 0); text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">带上微笑的面具,抑郁并不会消失</font></span></strong></p><p line="QnPe" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">抑郁不是你仰着头,装作看不见,就会自己消失,他会默默跟在身后:</font></span></strong></span></p><p line="MOaD" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><ul class="list-paddingleft-1" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><li style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p line="LGzw" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">觉得莫名的难受,胸闷,但是又没什么伤心事</font></span></p></li><li style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p line="NFII" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">那些曾经让你兴致勃勃的事物,现在索然无味</font></span></p></li><li style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p line="REOq" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">觉得自己一无是处,沉浸在低落的情绪中</font></span></p></li><li style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p line="FtTG" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">生活开始变得灰暗,没有希望,没有意义</font></span></p></li><li style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p line="dNIT" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">一步步失去了快乐的能力,就像泄了气的皮球</font></span></p></li><li style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p line="gt9F" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">有时候失眠,有时候嗜睡不愿醒,吃什么都没有胃口</font></span></p></li></ul><p line="Y9xP" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">如果你也出现过这样的情况,那是抑郁通过身体告诉你,不要逼着自己往前,你该停下脚步看看自己了。如果放任这样的信号不理,往往让情况更加糟糕。</font></span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(234, 34, 0); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;"> 04</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); background-color: rgb(234, 34, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; color: rgb(234, 34, 0); text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">抑郁时,你会怎么办?</font></span></strong></p><p line="Djih" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">即使抑郁情况已经很糟糕了,据调查显示,也仅有5%的人会寻求专业机构或者个人的帮助。其余95%的人则会采取独立默默忍受。而问题并不会自己主动变好,默默忍受的背后,更多是恐慌害怕:</font></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br></font></p><section data-style-type="6" data-tools="新媒体排版" data-id="2894" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;<a href=" https:="" mmbiz.qpic.cn="" mmbiz_png="" nbk1cdbtciatuaakscdsujupch4kapj3bcial9prb0mu7om8aia4jyqyrtndl9rvwvlxbekdb86q4jrvq2euehjzg="" 640?wx_fmt="png&quot;&quot;" target="_blank"><section style="padding: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">害怕被确诊抑郁症,不知道如何面对</font></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">害怕被这种糟糕的状态,毁了原本该美好的工作生活</font></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">害怕最亲的人不理解,最爱的人疏离</font></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">害怕抑郁复发,跟在身后一辈子</font></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">害怕自己脑子里闪过死的念头,最害怕的是,有一天自己连死都不怕了</font></span></p></section></section></section><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); box-sizing: border-box !important;">压抑不开心、默默忍受、恐慌害怕,都会让抑郁变本加厉,让我们在抑郁的泥塘里越陷越深,被无力感和压抑笼罩。</span><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); box-sizing: border-box !important;">而</span><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); box-sizing: border-box !important;">随着抑郁的加重,很多人往往会经历从“不开心”到“不想活”的一个转变。</strong></strong></font></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">但抑郁并不是不可控的,<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我们的人生可以再好起来</strong></strong>。</font></span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">北京心理危机研究与干预中心、北京回龙观医院心理科副主任医师、副教授彭旭,在20多年里,帮助7万多人走出心灵困境。</font></span></p><p line="FO5A" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4">他说,“这么多年来,我看到无数人被抑郁困扰的人走了出来,找回了快乐,过上自己想要的生活。其实,<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我们每个人都是有自我疗愈能力的,我们都可以甩掉抑郁,只是需要用专业的方法来帮自己。</strong>”那么:</font></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p><p style="text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font color="#3f3f3f" face="Optima-Regulr, PingFangTC-light" size="4">你知道你自己的抑郁是什么程度吗?</font></p><p style="text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font color="#3f3f3f" face="Optima-Regulr, PingFangTC-light" size="4">来"儿童心理云平台”测一下吧!</font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font color="#3f3f3f" face="Optima-Regulr, PingFangTC-light" size="4"><br></font></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><div style="text-align: center;"><font size="4">抑郁自评量表(SDS)</font></div><div style="text-align: center;"><font size="4"></font></div><p></p><p style="text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4"><a href="https://www.aixin114.net/app/measuring/guide?scaleid=10000006&amp;type=3">https://www.aixin114.net/app/measuring/guide?scaleid=10000006&amp;type=3</a></font></p><p line="8ths" style="text-align: center; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p></div><p></p>
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