漫画：10张图告诉你，你是在“说教”还是在和孩子“共情”
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><section style="display:none;" data-tools="新媒体管家" data-label="powered by xmt.cn" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><br></section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="text-align: right;"><span style="font-size: 12px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);">转自公众号牛妈彭小蹦（id：pengxiaobeng） </span><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 12px;"></span></p><p style="text-align: right;"><span style="color:#888888;"><span style="font-size: 12px;"><br></span></span><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 12px;"></span><br></p><p><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;height: 97.488px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;width: 677px !important;"></span></p><p><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;height: 1002.81px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;width: 677px !important;"></span></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;height: 97.488px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;width: 677px !important;"></span></p><p><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;height: 998.575px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;width: 677px !important;"></span></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;height: 97.488px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;width: 677px !important;"></span></p><p><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;height: 1115.99px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;width: 677px !important;"></span></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;height: 97.488px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;width: 677px !important;"></span></p><p><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;height: 1038.24px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;width: 677px !important;"></span></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;height: 97.488px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;width: 677px !important;"></span></p><p><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;height: 993.815px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;width: 677px !important;"></span></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;height: 97.488px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;width: 677px !important;"></span></p><p><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;height: 1000.69px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;width: 677px !important;"></span></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;height: 97.488px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;width: 677px !important;"></span></p><p><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;height: 1012.86px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;width: 677px !important;"></span></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;height: 97.488px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;width: 677px !important;"></span></p><p><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;height: 1002.28px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;width: 677px !important;"></span></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;height: 97.488px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;width: 677px !important;"></span></p><p><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;height: 900.173px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;width: 677px !important;"></span></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;height: 97.488px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;width: 677px !important;"></span></p><p><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;height: 1131.86px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;width: 677px !important;"></span></p><p><br mpa-from-tpl="t"></p><section data-mpa-template="t" mpa-from-tpl="t"><section data-mpa-template="t" mpa-from-tpl="t"><section data-mid="" mpa-from-tpl="t" style="display: flex;justify-content: center;align-items: center;width: 578px;"><section data-mid="" mpa-from-tpl="t" style="display: flex;justify-content: flex-start;align-items: center;flex-direction: column;width: 578px;"><section data-mid="" mpa-from-tpl="t" style="margin-bottom: -16.1px; width: 0px; height: 0px; align-self: flex-start; border-bottom: 16px solid rgb(205, 49, 49); border-left: 18px solid transparent; border-right: 0px solid transparent; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; z-index: 1;"><br mpa-from-tpl="t"></section><section data-mid="" mpa-from-tpl="t" style="padding: 18px 5px 18px 22px; width: 578px; background: rgb(255, 250, 250);"><p data-mid=""><br></p><span style="color: rgb(123, 12, 0);font-size: 15px;">左妈妈和右妈妈最大的区别是角度，一个站在自己的角度，一个站在孩子的角度。</span></section><section data-mid="" mpa-from-tpl="t" style="padding: 18px 5px 18px 22px; width: 578px; background: rgb(255, 250, 250);"><span style="color: rgb(123, 12, 0);font-size: 15px;">如果站在自己的角度，用的是自己的“经验”、“判断”或“理解”，而站在孩子的角度，是用孩子的眼镜去看、耳朵去听、心去感受，帮助孩子建立属于自己的经验。</span><p data-mid=""><br></p></section></section></section></section></section><p><br mpa-from-tpl="t"></p><section><span style="font-size: 12px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);">作者简介：牛妈彭小蹦，两个孩子的妈妈，阿德勒学派心理咨询师，中国家庭教育学会家校社共育专业理事，出版育儿漫画集《成长，不慌张》入选全国家庭类亲子阅读书目。</span></section><section><br></section></div><p></p>
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