安全教育 | 防校园欺凌指导手册（老师可转家长）
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text-indent: 2em; visibility: visible;">同窗情深，友谊绵绵。但有这么一小部分孩子</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; visibility: visible;">因不成熟、不守规矩而欺凌同学，</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; text-indent: 2em; visibility: visible;">给被欺凌者留下难以抹去的阴影！今天，我们一起来了解如何保护“少年的你”！</span></span></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; user-select: auto; max-inline-size: 100%; line-height: 1.6; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; user-select: auto; max-inline-size: 100%; line-height: 1.6; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important; 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max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p></section></section><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: -10px; margin-left: -50px; padding: 5px 10px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: auto; background-color: rgb(237, 247, 255); border-width: 0px; flex: 100 100 0%; align-self: stretch; height: auto; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-top: 3px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 17px; color: rgb(0, 72, 132); line-height: 1.6; letter-spacing: 0px; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 0em; letter-spacing: 0px; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0px; background-color: rgb(238, 244, 255); visibility: visible;">一、校园欺凌的主要行为</strong></strong></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin: 10px 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", "Apple Color Emoji", "Emoji Symbols Font", "Segoe UI Symbol", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="margin: 10px 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", "Apple Color Emoji", "Emoji Symbols Font", "Segoe UI Symbol", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;">学生之间，在年龄、身体或者人数上占优势的一方蓄意或者恶意对另一方实施下述行为，或者以其他方式欺压、侮辱另一方，造成人身伤害、财产损害或者精神损失的，可以认定为构成欺凌。</span></section><section style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; visibility: visible; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">1）肢体欺凌：通过肢体动作去恐吓、伤害他人，如暴力推搡、拳打脚踢、抢夺或勒索财物等。</span></section><section style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; visibility: visible; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">2）言语欺凌：通过骚扰、辱骂性语言对他人进行伤害，如当面或背后羞辱、讥讽、嘲笑、诅咒、起外号等。</span></section><section style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; visibility: visible; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">3）社交欺凌：故意离间破坏同学之间的关系，如散播谣言、暴露他人隐私、损毁他人形象、孤立排挤他人等。</span></section><section style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; visibility: visible; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></span></section><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 578px !important;"></span></p><section style="margin: 10px 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", "Apple Color Emoji", "Emoji Symbols Font", "Segoe UI Symbol", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 20px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="padding-top: 10px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 60px; border-style: solid; border-width: 3px; border-color: rgb(9, 19, 136); flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; align-self: stretch; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p></section></section><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: -10px; margin-left: -50px; padding: 5px 10px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: auto; background-color: rgb(237, 247, 255); border-width: 0px; flex: 100 100 0%; align-self: stretch; height: auto; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-top: 3px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 17px; color: rgb(0, 72, 132); line-height: 1.6; letter-spacing: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 0em; letter-spacing: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0px; background-color: rgb(238, 244, 255);">二、校园欺凌的高发阶段</strong></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; color: rgb(0, 128, 255); font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">校园欺凌的高发阶段</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">1） 课间休息时间</span></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">2） 午休时间</span></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">3） 没有老师看管的活动时间</span></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">4）上下学途中</span></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; color: rgb(0, 128, 255); font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">校园欺凌高发区域</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">1）教室 </span></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">2）楼道 </span></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">3）学校厕所 </span></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">4）学校操场 </span></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">5）学生宿舍</span></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">6）校门及周边</span></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><section style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 562px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></span></section><section style="margin: 10px 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 20px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="padding-top: 10px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 60px; border-style: solid; border-width: 3px; border-color: rgb(9, 19, 136); flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; align-self: stretch; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p></section></section><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: -10px; margin-left: -50px; padding: 5px 10px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: auto; background-color: rgb(237, 247, 255); border-width: 0px; flex: 100 100 0%; align-self: stretch; height: auto; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-top: 3px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 17px; color: rgb(0, 72, 132); line-height: 1.6; letter-spacing: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 0em; letter-spacing: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0px; background-color: rgb(238, 244, 255);">三、遭遇校园欺凌应该怎么做？</strong></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">1）保持镇定。</span></section><section style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">2）求救，向路人呼救求助，采用异常动作引起周围人注意。</span></section><section style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">3）人身安全永远是第一位的。可以试着通过警示性的语言击退对方，或者通过有策略的谈话和借助环境来使自己摆脱困境。但是不要去激怒对方。</span></section><section style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">4）在学校不主动与同学发生冲突，一旦发生及时找老师解决。</span></section><section style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">5）不管遭遇了怎样的恐吓，都要告诉家长，不要自己承受身体和心理上的创伤。</span></section><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", "Apple Color Emoji", "Emoji Symbols Font", "Segoe UI Symbol", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 20px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="padding-top: 10px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 60px; border-style: solid; border-width: 3px; border-color: rgb(9, 19, 136); flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; align-self: stretch; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p></section></section><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: -10px; margin-left: -50px; padding: 5px 10px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: auto; background-color: rgb(237, 247, 255); border-width: 0px; flex: 100 100 0%; align-self: stretch; height: auto; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-top: 3px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 17px; color: rgb(0, 72, 132); line-height: 1.6; letter-spacing: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 0em; letter-spacing: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0px; background-color: rgb(238, 244, 255);">三、当孩子遭遇欺凌，家长应该怎么做</strong></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">1）教会孩子自尊自爱和自我保护。有些家长平时要求孩子一味顺从，打压孩子的自尊，这样容易导致孩子在学校成为被欺负的对象，如果事态超出孩子的应对能力，家长应采取行动，与学校和老师进行沟通。</span></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">2）鼓励孩子建立有益的人际关系。孤僻、不合群、人际交往能力差的孩子更容易遭受校园欺凌。家长要从小培养孩子和同伴建立善意、支持性的人际关系能力，这对校园欺凌的影响能产生缓冲作用。</span></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">3）冷静，最重要的是孩子。当孩子讲述欺凌发生的情形时，请保持冷静，很好地倾听并作出回应，让孩子知道这个情况是完全可以控制的。无论发生什么样的事情，父母都会站在他这一边，支持他。</span></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">4）共情，先别追问过多细节。不要一味安慰孩子不要和同学计较，这可能让孩子误以为遭受欺凌是因为自身的问题，让他陷入更深的痛苦与自责。对孩子表达共情，向孩子传递这样的信号：他所描述的事情并不是成长过程中的“常态”，你对于他所遭受的对待非常痛心。</span></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">5）接纳，父母绝不抛弃你。孩子遭受欺凌后容易出现极端情绪，如对于人际关系异常抗拒，不愿意上学等，这个时候家长要宽容对待，因为孩子可能处于应激状态，不要对他产生二度伤害。</span></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">6）安抚，先平复孩子的情绪。孩子在极度没有安全感时更看重别人的关心，越早把情绪处理好，对孩子的伤害和日后的影响才能越小，这比起解决事情本身更重要。</span></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">7）感谢，你肯将事情讲出来，很勇敢。告诉孩子很感谢他有勇气告诉你这件事，同时向他说明，只有他愿意谈到这个事情，爸妈才有机会可以帮助他。比较有效的一种表达方式是：我知道你需要很大勇气告诉我这些，尽管这么艰难，你却依然愿意告诉我，谢谢你的信任。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", "Apple Color Emoji", "Emoji Symbols Font", "Segoe UI Symbol", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 20px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="padding-top: 10px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 60px; border-style: solid; border-width: 3px; border-color: rgb(9, 19, 136); flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; align-self: stretch; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p></section></section><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: -10px; margin-left: -50px; padding: 5px 10px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: auto; background-color: rgb(237, 247, 255); border-width: 0px; flex: 100 100 0%; align-self: stretch; height: auto; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-top: 3px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 17px; color: rgb(0, 72, 132); line-height: 1.6; letter-spacing: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 0em; letter-spacing: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0px; background-color: rgb(238, 244, 255);">三、遭遇校园欺凌，学校应该怎么做？</strong></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><section style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">1.救助为主：对于校园欺凌受害者，校方应立即组织医疗救助、心理干预、司法协助等。</span></section><section style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">2.适度惩戒：对校园欺凌的加害者，校方一定要通报其家长，给予严肃批评教育，绝不姑息，总体原则是确保教育挽救的宗旨，在法律的范围之内予以适当惩处。</span></section><section style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">3.快速反应：学校要及时关注学生动态，立刻开展救助工作，合理处置欺凌事件。</span></section><section style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">4.低调弥补：在处置过程中，校方要从受害人角度出发，多关注受害孩子、家长的利益，保护未成年人隐私，客观回应社会关切。</span></section><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", "Apple Color Emoji", "Emoji Symbols Font", "Segoe UI Symbol", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", "Apple Color Emoji", "Emoji Symbols Font", "Segoe UI Symbol", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: center; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 128, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;">遭遇校园欺凌不能忍气吞声,要积极向学校和家长反应</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", "Apple Color Emoji", "Emoji Symbols Font", "Segoe UI Symbol", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: center; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 128, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;">要勇敢地 说“不”,如果你一味退让、妥协、不吭声,只会让施暴者更变本加厉欺负你！</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", "Apple Color Emoji", "Emoji Symbols Font", "Segoe UI Symbol", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: center; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 128, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></span></strong></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 27.2px; widows: 1; color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 12px; text-align: center; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="display: none;"><mp-style-type data-value="3"></mp-style-type></p><br>转载声明：本文转载自「心理讲师联盟」，搜索「x66657172」即可关注，[<a target="_blank" href="https://mp.weixin.qq.com/s/io8biF-8FdC7sqwOkMliUg">阅读原文</a>]。</div><p></p>
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