家长的言传身教如何影响孩子成长？这张家庭教育表值得收藏！

gongyi020 发表于 2023-3-10 21:11:49

家长的言传身教如何影响孩子成长？这张家庭教育表值得收藏！

<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section> </section></section></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="97534"><section style="margin: 10px auto;"><section style="width: 40%;margin-left: 5px;" data-width="40%"> </section><section style="border-width: 1px;border-style: dotted;border-color: rgb(95, 156, 239);border-radius: 15px;overflow: hidden;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin: 10px auto;text-align: center;"><section style="display: inline-block;margin-top: 8px;"><span style="max-inline-size: 100%;cursor: text;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);text-align: justify;caret-color: red;font-size: 15px;font-family: 微软雅黑, Microsoft YaHei;box-sizing: border-box !important;outline: none 0px !important;">父母是孩子的第一位老师，父母的生活态度、思维方式和言传身教深深影响着孩子的性格和习惯。所以，各位家长收下这张家庭教育表，让我们都拥有一个积极的思维方式，让自己和孩子都获益终身。</section></section><section style="width: 40%;margin-left: 55%;" data-width="40%"></section></section></section></section> 父母的思维方式和教育方式对孩子的性格发展有着很大的影响，一起来看看消极的人和积极的人他们的思维方式有何不同？ </section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="padding: 5px;display: inline-block;border-radius: 0px 8px;background-color: rgb(95, 156, 239);font-size: 19px;line-height: 1.2em;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">01</section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;">对待家庭的思维方式<table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" width="100%"><tbody style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><tr style="max-width: 100%; height: 27px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td height="27" style="padding: 1px; border-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background: none 0% 0% repeat scroll rgb(95, 156, 239); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;">消极的人</td><td height="27" style="padding: 1px; border-left-style: none; border-top-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background: none 0% 0% repeat scroll rgb(95, 156, 239); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;">积极的人</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">凑合着过</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">努力经营</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我命不好</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我一定要通过提升自己改变家庭的命运</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我找错人了</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我错在哪儿了</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">要是我再年轻一点</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我还很年轻</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我受的文化程度不高</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我会不断学习</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">要是我老公（老婆）是……</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">幸福要靠自己</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">平平安安就是一切</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">不断进取才是一切</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">别去冒风险</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">要学会管理风险</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我对未来不抱多大希望</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">坚持才有希望</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">家人并不理解我</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我要多沟通让家人理解我</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我说了多少遍他都不改</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我要掌握说话的艺术</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">贪财乃是万恶之源</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">贫困才是万恶之本</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我对钱不感兴趣</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我的爱好是让钱生钱</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他总惹我生气</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我的修养不够</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我要不断的挣钱 （我要追钱）</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我要不断升值 （钱要追我）</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我年龄大了不想变了</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我必须更新自己</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这是一个让我感觉不安的家</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这是一个充满希望的家</td></tr></tbody></table><mpcpc js_editor_cpcad="" class="js_cpc_area cpc_iframe" src="/cgi-bin/readtemplate?t=tmpl/cpc_tmpl#1678410353597" data-category_id_list="1|16|17|2|21|24|28|29|31|35|36|37|39|41|42|43|46|47|48|5|50|51|55|56|57|58|59|6|60|61|62|63|64|65|66|7|8" data-id="1678410353597"></mpcpc></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="padding: 5px;display: inline-block;border-radius: 0px 8px;background-color: rgb(95, 156, 239);font-size: 19px;line-height: 1.2em;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">02</section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;">看待孩子问题的思维方式<table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" width="100%"><tbody style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background: none 0% 0% repeat scroll rgb(95, 156, 239); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;">消极的人</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-left-style: none; border-top-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background: none 0% 0% repeat scroll rgb(95, 156, 239); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;">积极的人</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在孩子出现问题时发火或无奈</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">通过学习想办法解决问题</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这是孩子的错</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这是我的原因造成的错</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这是我老公（老婆）的原因导致</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">需要和他（她）沟通了</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这孩子没救了</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">没有教育不好的孩子，只有不会教育的父母</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我要改变孩子</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我先改变自己</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">只看孩子的缺点</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">先看孩子的优点</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子不爱学习是没有遇到好老师</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我需要先变成一个好学的人</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子不独立，太没有主见</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我应该放手让孩子锻炼</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子性格不好</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我要提高自身修养不要在家里发脾气</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子心眼小</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我要成为一个大气的人</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子没有上进心</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我要成为有上进心的人</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子悖逆</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我要和他成为朋友</td></tr></tbody></table> </section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="padding: 5px;display: inline-block;border-radius: 0px 8px;background-color: rgb(95, 156, 239);font-size: 19px;line-height: 1.2em;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">03</section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;">对待孩子学习的思维方式<table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" width="100%"><tbody style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background: none 0% 0% repeat scroll rgb(95, 156, 239); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;">消极的人</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-left-style: none; border-top-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background: none 0% 0% repeat scroll rgb(95, 156, 239); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;">积极的人</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一定要考个好学校</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一定要找个孩子适合的学校</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">渴望孩子拿第一</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">渴望孩子成为一个喜欢学习的人</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子成绩下降真糟糕</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我有了发现孩子问题的机会</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">期待孩子学习好</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">期待孩子全面发展</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子的问题是长久的</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子的问题是暂时的</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">多报补习班</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">不断地激发孩子学习兴趣是关键</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">千方百计让孩子多学习书本知识</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">创造机会让孩子多体验</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子比别的孩子差的远</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子的发展空间很大</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这孩子脑袋空空的</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一定要想办法帮助孩子填补头脑的空白</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子学习不好将来没有出息</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子只要有梦想一切都会好起来</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我的孩子真糟糕</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">家庭教育要改进</td></tr></tbody></table> </section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="padding: 5px;display: inline-block;border-radius: 0px 8px;background-color: rgb(95, 156, 239);font-size: 19px;line-height: 1.2em;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">04</section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;">对待家庭教育的思维方式<table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" width="100%"><tbody style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background: none 0% 0% repeat scroll rgb(95, 156, 239); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;">消极的人</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-left-style: none; border-top-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background: none 0% 0% repeat scroll rgb(95, 156, 239); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;">积极的人</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子现在已经不错了</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">眼界决定未来世界，我不能让孩子做井底之蛙</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">只要孩子学习好我就放心了</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子积极进取而且性格好我就放心了</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我要帮助孩子成长</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我要作表率让孩子知道我是怎么做的</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">除了学习好我不要求孩子什么</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我一定要帮助孩子成为精神强大的人</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子将来考个好大学就好了</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子只要爱学习这比上大学更重要</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我不能让孩子吃苦</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">让孩子有苦的体验才能促进他的心灵成长</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子不能吃亏</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">让孩子知道小舍小得、大舍大得</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">让孩子将来发大财、做大官</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">先让孩子做好人</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子小不懂事</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">抓住每一个机会让孩子懂得事理</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">要是我有钱就可以送孩子出国了</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">只要孩子有能力，走哪儿都会被抢着要</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">寄希望于孩子努力</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">通过自己努力让孩子知道什么才是积极人生</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子真让我担心</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我要多鼓励孩子让他更有信心</td></tr></tbody></table><mpcpc js_editor_cpcad="" class="js_cpc_area cpc_iframe" src="/cgi-bin/readtemplate?t=tmpl/cpc_tmpl#1678410364370" data-category_id_list="1|16|17|2|21|24|28|29|31|35|36|37|39|41|42|43|46|47|48|5|50|51|55|56|57|58|59|6|60|61|62|63|64|65|66|7|8" data-id="1678410364370"></mpcpc></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="padding: 5px;display: inline-block;border-radius: 0px 8px;background-color: rgb(95, 156, 239);font-size: 19px;line-height: 1.2em;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">05</section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;">你的今天就是孩子的明天<table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" width="100%"><tbody style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background: none 0% 0% repeat scroll rgb(95, 156, 239); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子的表现</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-left-style: none; border-top-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background: none 0% 0% repeat scroll rgb(95, 156, 239); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;">家庭的表现</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">自卑、懦弱</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">父母其中必然有一人是苛求之人（干涉型家庭教育结果）</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">喜欢暴力或奴性十足</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">有一个喜欢打骂的家长（干涉型家庭教育结果）</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">胆小害羞</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">管得过多，时常责怪，包办代替（干涉型家庭教育结果）</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">不善良</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">父母必有一个人缺乏同情心（暴力型家庭教育结果）</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">不懂是非</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">必有一个专制，喜欢替孩子做决定的家长，或是一个不明事理的家长（干涉型家庭或溺爱型家庭结果）</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">小心眼</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">缺乏宽容的家庭环境，指责是这个家庭的主基调（干涉型家庭结果）</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">不上进</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">父母对孩子要求过高，或父母对自己要求过低（干涉型家庭或放任型家庭）</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">懒惰</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">父母替孩子做得太多（干涉型家庭或溺爱型家庭）</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">喜欢埋怨</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">必然有一个负面思维的家长<p style="text-align: center; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 1px; padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">（干涉型家庭或暴力型家庭）</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">脾气暴躁</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">必然有一个家长脾气不好，习惯通过发火这种不良方式与人沟通（干涉型家庭或暴力型家庭）</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">自以为是</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">父母溺爱的必然结局（溺爱型家庭或放任型家庭）</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">不会关心人</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">父母宠爱过度，不让孩子表现（溺爱型家庭或放任型家庭）</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">不快乐整天板着脸</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">夫妻不和或父母与孩子关系紧张（干涉型家庭、暴力型家庭或放任型家庭）</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">过于敏感、多疑</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">家庭不包容，缺乏温暖（干涉型家庭或暴力型家庭）</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">不喜欢学习</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">家长不爱学习或者不认为学习有多重要（干涉型家庭、暴力型家庭、放任型家庭或无文化型家庭）</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">冷酷、孤僻</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">必然有一个放任不管或喜欢暴力的家长（放任型、暴力型家庭的结果）</td></tr><tr style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-left-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">自私</td><td style="padding: 1px; border-top-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-right-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); border-bottom-color: rgb(191, 191, 191); word-break: break-all; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;">必然有一个溺爱的父母（溺爱型家庭）</td></tr></tbody></table> </section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;">真正的教育是一场修行，是孩子的纯真、无私、灵动洗濯了成人的浮躁、功利、自大的心理历程。好的教育，应该是父母通过孩子这把镜子，不断发现自我、修正自我、挖掘自我，并用新我来为孩子做示范和表率。我们是在教育的过程中，遇见了更好的自己。 


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齐宝发表于 2023-3-10 21:11:52

家长的言传身教是影响孩子成长的重要因素之一，因为孩子会从家长的行为中学习到很多东西。以下是一张家庭教育表，旨在帮助家长更好地引导孩子成长。

1. 坦诚沟通：与孩子建立良好的沟通渠道，让孩子感到被理解和尊重。
2. 积极影响：时刻以身作则，给孩子树立正确的榜样，让孩子感受到积极向上的氛围。
3. 适度管理：合理规划孩子的时间、学习任务和娱乐活动，让孩子有一定的自由但不失控制。
4. 约束监督：遵守家庭纪律和规矩，及时发现和纠正孩子的错误，让孩子形成正确的行为习惯。
5. 给予关心：耐心聆听孩子的诉求和烦恼，让孩子感到被关注和爱护。
6. 鼓励支持：赞扬孩子的优点和进步，激发孩子的自信和动力。

这些方法的实施需要家长的长期坚持和努力，但是对于孩子的成长来说却是至关重要的。因此，家长应该认真对待家庭教育，多学习相关知识和技能，以更好地引导孩子成长。

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家长的言传身教如何影响孩子成长？这张家庭教育表值得收藏！