成长，从戒掉抱怨开始
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2.1333em;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;">生活中，每个人都会有不如意的时候，偶尔抱怨其实是情绪的出口，能够让心里的难过得到纾解。但抱怨是一种负面的心理暗示，并不能解决任何问题，我们真正需要做的是遇山开路、遇水架桥。一个人优秀的开始，在于减少抱怨，专注于自身的提升。</span></strong><span style="text-align: center;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1.5px;color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9);"></span></p></section></section></section><p powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></p><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: -6px;margin-bottom: -6px;outline: 0px;transform: scale(0.8);transform-origin: center center;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;outline: 0px;font-size: 19px;text-align: center;"><section style="margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(240, 219, 111);background-color: rgb(240, 219, 111);width: 1.8em;height: 1.8em;line-height: 1.8em;border-radius: 100%;font-size: 34px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><p style="outline: 0px;"><br></p></section></section></section><p 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2em;">对待同一件事情，当我们的态度变了，我们的心境和处境都会随之改变。当你想要抱怨时，可以试着转变自己的视角，你会在原本看似枯燥乏味的内容中找到意义。</section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><br></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;">有人曾经提供一个戒掉抱怨的方法，叫作“21天不抱怨行动”。先给自己准备一个手环，每当自己抱怨的时候，就将手环从一只手换到另一只手上。以此类推，直到坚持将手环戴在同一只手上21天，你会发现生活已经悄悄发生改变。有句话说：“停止抱怨，你就已经在通往幸福生活的路上了。”当你以乐观的态度面对世事，生活的每一天都会有惊喜，人生处处也都充满美好和希望。</section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><br></section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;"></span></p><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><br></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(214, 168, 65);">与正能量的人同行</span></strong></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><br></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;">在任何关系中，相处舒服都是很重要的一点，而有些人身上的正能量，会在不知不觉中感染你。正能量的人就像太阳一样自带光芒，和他们在一起，仿佛在暖阳下行走，温暖舒适，让人精力充沛，时间久了自己也会学着发光。多结交一些正能量的朋友会驱散你心中的阴霾，会给予你重新振作的力量，会帮助你提升自己。和正能量的朋友同行，多一点儿积极的改变，相信积累的力量，自己的生活就会越过越好。<span style="font-size: 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