请查收：处理青少年厌学问题实操指南
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-size: 16px; visibility: visible;" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><section style="outline: 0px;display: flex;justify-content: flex-start;flex-flow: row nowrap;visibility: visible;"><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 338.5px;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;visibility: visible;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;text-align: right;visibility: visible;"><br></section></section></section></section><section class="mp_profile_iframe_wrp"><mp-common-profile class="js_uneditable custom_select_card mp_profile_iframe" data-pluginname="mpprofile" data-id="MzIwMjY3OTMzMg==" 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style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px; font-size: 15px;">厌学是危机，也是转机。因为它是很多家长发现孩子出现不适的切入点，越早发现，越能更早给到孩子支持和帮助，和孩子一起度过这个难关，健康快乐成长。</span></strong></span></p><p style="outline: 0px;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></p><p style="outline: 0px;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px; font-size: 15px;">那么，您是否真正了解厌学问题，以及当遇到这种问题时，能否正确应对和处理呢？这一份《处理青少年厌学问题实操指南》希望能给到您一些专业的支持，请您查收！</span></strong></span></p></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;display: flex;width: 617px;flex-flow: column;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;z-index: 1;transform: perspective(0px);transform-style: flat;"><section style="outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row;transform: rotateX(180deg);"><section style="outline: 0px;display: 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auto;background-color: rgb(242, 239, 217);border-top-left-radius: 215px;border-bottom-left-radius: 215px;overflow: hidden;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;"><p style="outline: 0px;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></p></section></section><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;align-self: stretch;background-color: rgb(242, 239, 217);"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: -10px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;"><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 655px;height: 11px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-top-left-radius: 87px;border-top-right-radius: 87px;background-color: rgb(241, 239, 217);"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;"><p style="outline: 0px;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></p></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row;"><section style="padding-right: 18px;padding-left: 18px;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 655px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row;"><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;align-self: flex-start;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;"><p style="outline: 0px;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">什么是厌学？</strong></span></p></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 8px;outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;background-color: rgb(165, 183, 161);height: 1px;"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;min-width: 5%;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;align-self: flex-start;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;transform: perspective(0px);transform-style: flat;"><section style="margin-top: -17px;outline: 0px;text-align: right;line-height: 0;transform: translate3d(23px, 0px, 0px) rotateY(180deg);"><section style="outline: 0px;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 93px;height: auto;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;vertical-align: middle;visibility: visible !important;width: 93px !important;"></span></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;color: rgb(105, 115, 102);"><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;">从心理学角度讲，厌学是指学生消极对待学习活动的行为反应模式。主要表现为学生对学习认识存在偏差，情感上消极地对待学习，行为上主动远离学习。</span></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;transform: perspective(0px);transform-style: flat;"><section style="margin-bottom: -10px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;transform: rotateX(180deg);"><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 655px;height: 11px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-top-left-radius: 87px;border-top-right-radius: 87px;background-color: rgb(241, 239, 217);"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;"><p style="outline: 0px;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></p></section></section></section></section></section><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 11px;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;background-color: rgb(242, 239, 217);border-top-right-radius: 190px;border-bottom-right-radius: 190px;overflow: hidden;align-self: stretch;"><section 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style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;align-self: stretch;background-color: rgb(242, 239, 217);"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: -10px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;"><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 655px;height: 11px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-top-left-radius: 87px;border-top-right-radius: 87px;background-color: rgb(241, 239, 217);"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;"><p style="outline: 0px;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></p></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row;"><section style="padding-right: 18px;padding-left: 18px;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 655px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row;"><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;align-self: flex-start;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;"><p style="outline: 0px;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">孩子是惧学、厌学，还是拒学？这是一回事儿吗？</strong></span></p></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 8px;outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;background-color: rgb(165, 183, 161);height: 1px;"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;min-width: 5%;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;align-self: flex-start;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;transform: perspective(0px);transform-style: flat;"><section style="margin-top: -17px;outline: 0px;text-align: right;line-height: 0;transform: translate3d(23px, 0px, 0px) rotateY(180deg);"><section style="outline: 0px;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 93px;height: auto;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;vertical-align: middle;visibility: visible !important;width: 93px !important;"></span></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;color: rgb(105, 115, 102);"><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;">惧学强调情绪层面，拒学强调行为层面，厌学强调动机层面。强调视角不同，说的其实是一件事儿，那就是：</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">“去学校让我不再新奇快乐，反而得到更多不愉快的负面经验，所以我要启动天生的保护机制，我要逃避让我焦虑痛苦的地方。”</strong></span></section><p style="outline: 0px;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></p></section></section></section></section></section><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 11px;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;background-color: rgb(242, 239, 217);border-top-right-radius: 190px;border-bottom-right-radius: 190px;overflow: hidden;align-self: stretch;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;"><p style="outline: 0px;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></p></section></section></section><p powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></p><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 20px; margin-bottom: 20px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; justify-content: flex-start; display: flex; flex-flow: row;"><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 11px;align-self: stretch;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;background-color: rgb(242, 239, 217);border-top-left-radius: 215px;border-bottom-left-radius: 215px;overflow: hidden;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;"><p style="outline: 0px;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></p></section></section><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;align-self: stretch;background-color: rgb(242, 239, 217);"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: -10px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;"><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 655px;height: 11px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-top-left-radius: 87px;border-top-right-radius: 87px;background-color: rgb(241, 239, 217);"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;"><p style="outline: 0px;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></p></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row;"><section style="padding-right: 18px;padding-left: 18px;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 655px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row;"><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;align-self: flex-start;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;"><p style="outline: 0px;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">哪些迹象表明，孩子可能是厌学了？</strong></span></p></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 8px;outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;background-color: rgb(165, 183, 161);height: 1px;"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;min-width: 5%;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;align-self: flex-start;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;transform: perspective(0px);transform-style: flat;"><section style="margin-top: -17px;outline: 0px;text-align: right;line-height: 0;transform: translate3d(23px, 0px, 0px) rotateY(180deg);"><section style="outline: 0px;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 93px;height: auto;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;vertical-align: middle;visibility: visible !important;width: 93px !important;"></span></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;color: rgb(105, 115, 102);"><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">情绪上：</strong>对学习没兴趣，甚至一提学习就容易紧张、焦虑、厌恶，自己也无法控制。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">行为上：</strong>写作业拖拉磨蹭，上课易走神，多动，逃学，严重者甚至休学在家。同时逃避现实，依赖网络、手机，以获得心灵慰藉等。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">人际关系上：</strong>经常把自己关在房间里，拒绝与父母、外界沟通。</span></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;transform: perspective(0px);transform-style: flat;"><section style="margin-bottom: -10px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;transform: rotateX(180deg);"><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 655px;height: 11px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-top-left-radius: 87px;border-top-right-radius: 87px;background-color: rgb(241, 239, 217);"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;"><p style="outline: 0px;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></p></section></section></section></section></section><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 11px;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;background-color: rgb(242, 239, 217);border-top-right-radius: 190px;border-bottom-right-radius: 190px;overflow: hidden;align-self: stretch;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 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inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;align-self: stretch;background-color: rgb(242, 239, 217);"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: -10px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;"><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 655px;height: 11px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-top-left-radius: 87px;border-top-right-radius: 87px;background-color: rgb(241, 239, 217);"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;"><p style="outline: 0px;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></p></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row;"><section style="padding-right: 18px;padding-left: 18px;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 655px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row;"><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;align-self: flex-start;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;"><p style="outline: 0px;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">厌学会对孩子造成哪些不良影响？</strong></span></p></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 8px;outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;background-color: rgb(165, 183, 161);height: 1px;"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;min-width: 5%;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;align-self: flex-start;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;transform: perspective(0px);transform-style: flat;"><section style="margin-top: -17px;outline: 0px;text-align: right;line-height: 0;transform: translate3d(23px, 0px, 0px) rotateY(180deg);"><section style="outline: 0px;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 93px;height: auto;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;vertical-align: middle;visibility: visible !important;width: 93px !important;"></span></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;color: rgb(105, 115, 102);"><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;">1.学习效率和学习成绩明显下降；</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;">2. 引起较多的情绪障碍如焦虑、抑郁，还可能引起睡眠障碍；</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;">3. 自我认同感和自我效能感降低，变得自卑、敏感；</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;">4. 社交意识下降，社交能力和社会适应能力变弱。</span></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;transform: perspective(0px);transform-style: flat;"><section style="margin-bottom: -10px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;transform: rotateX(180deg);"><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 655px;height: 11px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-top-left-radius: 87px;border-top-right-radius: 87px;background-color: rgb(241, 239, 217);"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;"><p style="outline: 0px;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></p></section></section></section></section></section><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 11px;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;background-color: rgb(242, 239, 217);border-top-right-radius: 190px;border-bottom-right-radius: 190px;overflow: hidden;align-self: stretch;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;"><p style="outline: 0px;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></p></section></section></section><p powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></p><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 20px; margin-bottom: 20px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; justify-content: flex-start; display: flex; flex-flow: row;"><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 11px;align-self: stretch;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;background-color: rgb(242, 239, 217);border-top-left-radius: 215px;border-bottom-left-radius: 215px;overflow: hidden;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;"><p style="outline: 0px;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></p></section></section><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;align-self: stretch;background-color: rgb(242, 239, 217);"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: -10px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;"><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 655px;height: 11px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-top-left-radius: 87px;border-top-right-radius: 87px;background-color: rgb(241, 239, 217);"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;"><p style="outline: 0px;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></p></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row;"><section style="padding-right: 18px;padding-left: 18px;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 655px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row;"><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;align-self: flex-start;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;"><p style="outline: 0px;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">孩子为什么会厌学？</strong></span></p></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 8px;outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;background-color: rgb(165, 183, 161);height: 1px;"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;min-width: 5%;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;align-self: flex-start;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;transform: perspective(0px);transform-style: flat;"><section style="margin-top: -17px;outline: 0px;text-align: right;line-height: 0;transform: translate3d(23px, 0px, 0px) rotateY(180deg);"><section style="outline: 0px;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 93px;height: auto;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;vertical-align: middle;visibility: visible !important;width: 93px !important;"></span></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;color: rgb(105, 115, 102);"><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;">孩子厌学是系统性问题，造成孩子厌学的原因是多方面的、复杂的，主要有：</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">个人因素：</strong>分离焦虑、完美主义、学习障碍、身心疾病</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">家庭因素：</strong>过度保护、期望过高、缺少关爱、过度干预</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">学校因素：</strong>管教不当、同侪排挤、升学主义、学习挫折</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br 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auto;height: auto;background-color: rgb(242, 239, 217);border-top-right-radius: 190px;border-bottom-right-radius: 190px;overflow: hidden;align-self: stretch;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;"><p style="outline: 0px;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></p></section></section></section><p style="outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;visibility: visible !important;width: auto !important;"></span></p><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 20px; margin-bottom: 20px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; justify-content: flex-start; display: flex; flex-flow: row;"><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 11px;align-self: stretch;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;background-color: rgb(242, 239, 217);border-top-left-radius: 215px;border-bottom-left-radius: 215px;overflow: hidden;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;"><p style="outline: 0px;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></p></section></section><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;align-self: stretch;background-color: rgb(242, 239, 217);"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: -10px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;"><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 655px;height: 11px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-top-left-radius: 87px;border-top-right-radius: 87px;background-color: rgb(241, 239, 217);"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;"><p style="outline: 0px;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></p></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row;"><section style="padding-right: 18px;padding-left: 18px;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 655px;vertical-align: top;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row;"><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;align-self: flex-start;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;"><p style="outline: 0px;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">孩子厌学，家长该怎么办？</strong></span></p></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 8px;outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;background-color: rgb(165, 183, 161);height: 1px;"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;min-width: 5%;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;align-self: flex-start;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;transform: perspective(0px);transform-style: flat;"><section style="margin-top: -17px;outline: 0px;text-align: right;line-height: 0;transform: translate3d(23px, 0px, 0px) rotateY(180deg);"><section style="outline: 0px;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 93px;height: auto;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;vertical-align: middle;visibility: visible !important;width: 93px !important;"></span></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;text-align: justify;color: rgb(105, 115, 102);"><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">解除焦虑：</strong>正确看待和接纳孩子不想上学的情绪和想法，尽量平和、理智地面对和处理这个问题；</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">自我照顾：</strong>每一个厌学孩子的父母都非常不容易，所以请先照顾好自己的身体和心理，才能有力气帮助和支持孩子；</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">建立关系：</strong>与孩子建立良好的亲子关系，是和孩子一起面对并解决厌学问题的前提；</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">解决问题：</strong>了解和关注孩子在学校适应的情况，好好和孩子沟通，随时提供必要的情绪支援，同时有计划有耐心协助孩子进行自我探索，帮助孩子找到自己的专长或强项，建立多元价值观。关键时刻寻求专业帮助；</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">自我成长：</strong>父母也要不断学习和成长，提升自己的亲职水平和教养方法，在关键时刻更好地理解、懂得和支持孩子。</span></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;transform: perspective(0px);transform-style: flat;"><section style="margin-bottom: -10px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;transform: rotateX(180deg);"><section style="outline: 0px;display: inline-block;width: 655px;height: 11px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-top-left-radius: 87px;border-top-right-radius: 87px;background-color: rgb(241, 239, 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